because i have a bad habit to think with my heart and not my head for a while... so i often go back and look at situations logically after ive reacted irrationally... so: ive liked my friend for a long time, and ive had a suspician he likes me. A mutual friend got tired of the tension between us and just went up to him last week and basically said "you know she likes you. you obviously like her. shes not waiting aruond and shes been talking to someone else, go ask her out before you lose her again" and he asked me on a date later that night. let me tell you, this kid is my polar opposite, but ive been crazy about him for months... not the kind of guy id ever go for. but i cant help it... im absolutely crazy for him. So the date: his fiend drove him to the movies. during the movies he seemed quite distracted, kept commenting that he was gtting phone calls and fidgeting and stuff, so i asked him if he wanted to go answr his phone or not be in the movie (i felt like i was burdening him by seeng the movie, but the movie was his idea) and he said no and calmed a bit after that. we get out of hte movie (and let me just say, though this is completely unimportant, movies are prime time to hold a hand or something. haha. jerkface.) and his friend is waiting right outside the theater. so the three of us walked around for about 20 minutes and then they left. Our date: we meet up, go into the theater, walk around with his friend, leave. That was it. I was a bit frustrated...hurt...upset/angry and most of all confused. it didnt really seem like a date at all. Am i over reacting? my plan is to call in a few days and sneak into the conversation a simple "im a bit confused and just wanted clarification: was that a date or were we just hanging out as friends, because im not sure? and take it from his response. am i completely off here, do i have the right to be upset/confused or am i just being a typical teenage girl? advice, help... PLEASE g.d i feel dumb
teenage girl reaction definatly, but i would say that he was nervous and unsure of himself...so he had his friend there to ease the tension maybe. i kno when im at the movies w/a girl i like i just cant stop thinking about them during the movie, like "r they bored", "should i hold there hand" shit like that. it's kinda weird but he's a teenage guy that will happen. I would say call him sooner than a few days, cuz then he may feel that u dont like him ne more or sumthing stupid like that.
thanks for responding! I ended up seeing him (with a group of friends) a few days later and didnt get a chance to talk to him- but i thought about it and if hes that nervous why would he give me a straight answer about whether it was a date or not? So im just going to ask the kid out again, make it obvious i mean as a date. Hopefully that'll work. If not fuck it, theres other guys out there who wont make me insane! (I hate getting 'girly' like this! Usually i just let things happen naturally. This sucks.
