I'm not sure if this is the appropriate forum to post this, but I figured a few or more women have had this problem, so here it goes. Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, he can never seem to hit my clit while we're having sex. Which results in me NOT having an orgasam, and not enjoying it and not wanting to be intimate as much. Has anyone else had this problem? Are there any positions that are succesful at hitting the womens clit? I just want to find a way to fix this BAD problem! Thanks so much!
myn has it right.. use your hand.. otherwise aim for face to face positions especially with variation where you can maximise contact of pubic bones.
1. Reach down during sex and rub your clit yourself. 2. Have him reach down and rub during sex. 3. Try woman on top -- you're in control and can move around to whatever position it takes to get that stimulation. 4. Make him get you there manually/orally before sex if you're not comfortable rubbing your clit during sex. You couldn't pay me enough to do that. I've heard too many horror stories of women who wound up with nerve damage from the piercing, who had reduced sensation in their clits as a result. Besides, if he actually cares to look (and especially if she is willing to show him), it's not exactly hard to find.
Seamonster along with a lot of the ladies her have the idea. Chances are he is not going to "hit it" during regular intercourse. You need a good tongue and some hands in there, too.
buy a c-ring (cock ring) with a bullet (vibrates) ... google "cock rings" . Thay come in different shapes, sizes, some require batteries, some don't. I have a couple (isell sex toys) and I love the ones that vibrate. There's a condom (trojan i think) that comes with a cock ring and it vibrates. You can not use it again and it lasts about 20 minutes. But if you just want to try it, check it out and if u like it, invest in a good cock ring.
Buy a vibrator and use it during sex. Problem solved for both of you. What's the point of doing it if you don't get to come?
basic intercourse doesn't result in the guy hitting the clit with his cock unless he's oddly shaped or really freakin talented. Deal with it. You'll have to rely on toys or you hand or -foreplay- (my personal fav) instead if you want to orgasm during intercourse. Most women don't, and those that do orgasm during intercourse (without a toy or their hands that is) usually do so from g-spot stimulation
A whole bunch of the things mentioned on here I've had work quite well. Among those I've done: * He can rub your clit while you have sex--it's not hard to fit a hand in between you--and can be as gentle or intense as you want. I enjoy doing that to a girl because I feel like I can make it more enjoyable that way! * A bullet vibe could be used like this. OR there's the cock rings with a bullet vibe. They take a little adjustment to really get right, but can work quite nicely. * You orgasm first, _then_ have sex. Depending on how sensitive you are afterwards, it might feel very very nice. You could always combine this with him using his finger again to enhance it further, again depending on sensitivity. Basically, no reason for your clit to go unattended-to during sex!
Woman on top and self finger stimulation are the best (in my opinion) advice so far. I will add this. Use his cock, in your hand, to rub his head against your clit. You control the pressure and direct where, and how often the head-to-clit contact is made. I think you'll both get off quite nicely. Just try it.
In most positions, you have the capacity to take control of your own orgasm. But increasing the amount of foreplay will certainly make your clitoris more sensitive. Try different sex positions to see which stimulates you best.
That works great until the continuous extra blood flow causes a sort of numbing in your clit and it becomes hard to get off. All in all, the rest of these are all great ideas.
