17 yr old guy, with a 24 yr old girl:/ HELP PLEASE! seriously need some help

ok, i work at this restuarant with this girl that likes me a lot shes 24 yrs old, at first i thought she was just tryin flirt and b funny, but it turns out that shes serious and she seems pretty into me, like i think shes obsessed with me or somethin, and im not sayin thats bad, i mean i like her i think i like her a lot, but idk, shes kind of wierd and shes WAYYYY OLDER THAN ME!!

i wouldnt kno how to act around her, i would b so nervous all da time, and if we were to hook up or have sex, i would feel inexperianced, cuz shes that old and idk it would just b an akward wierd relationship, at least thats what i think!!

plus i wouldnt understand why she wouldnt b ashamed datin a 17 yr old, it makes her look like she cant do better, and i kno its sounds mean, but its true, if i saw a older girl with a wayy yonger boy, i would b like wtf!! and shes not bad lookin lol im not sayin shes too good for me, but it just seems wierd to me.


ALSO, im tryin to b as unshy as i can around her, and shes all over me at work, and it makes me feel all wierd LOL, idk if its good wierd or bad wierd, and theres always this akwardness, cuz we dont really kno each other and we dont have a lot to talk about, even thouh we talk w/e we get a chance

SO TELL ME WHAT U THINK...WHAT SHOULD I DO?! WOULD THIS EVER WORK OUT?! should i give it atry?

 

plus im not sure if i like her, and shes all over me all da time, and idk what to think, i mean it looks like she reallly fell for me and likes me!! idk if shes just doin it to get attention in da restaurant, b/c thats what everybody is talkin about ALL DA TIME its gettin on my nerves..i stay cool though and act like nothings wrong it alwayz help to b positive

 

you sure she's not just a big flirt with everyone?

You don't sound that interested in her, I'd find a nice way to tell her that you aren't into her.

 

nope shes more a flirt with me than n e one else, im 100% sure of that, plus shes really not that much of a flirt with n e one else, and i could deff see myself with her, but i dont feel anything serious for her yet..

 

best advice?
...take it easy.
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Don't lead her on, as much as the attention may be tempting.

It also sounds like you're turned off not particularly about the age gap but by her crazy over-the-top behaviour that seems a bit fake. Sounds like you don't respect her either! And that's fine! It's good to be honest with yourself. As blenderhead said, take it easy. She sounds weird to me too but then again, you may have been going with the flow and leading her on.

 

Dude!
She just want's you as a boy toy and don't worry about any thing long term. Go get laid and then work on your spelling.

 

lol i know my spelling sucks, but i type really fast, and im also trilingual hebrew, english, spanish, that might explain why...

but if i really try i could type good thanks for your help btw, and yeah that girl is pretty wierd, im taking it easy now i laid off, and if she still crazy i migth just get laid, then work on my SPELLING (wizzarddrew) lol..

peace

 

Okay. Let's address the social issures first. Age:
It's illegal in most places in the USA for a 24yo to sexualy 'be' with a 17yo.
(Notice, I didn't mention gender?)

Now for the real life stuff. Be careful, if you decide to go for it.
There's stuff out there that can kill you. Bring a raincoat.

As for feeling inexperienced, don't worry about that! We all are our first time.
But advice from an older guy, Do not get too emotionally attatched.