My fiance and me are 10 years apart and I dont know if he already had too much sex in his life. I been trying to turn him on like eevry day but it only helps on certian time of the day.. after a certain food he eats and such, what do you think?
ditto... go establish relationships with other people. I'm not going to tell you marriage will tie you down, but you should probably get around some first. See what's out there. You might find that you like different people's reactions better.
well, the first thing...if you have a problem with the person you're with, it helps to talk to them about it first. maybe your fiance simply isn't as sexual as you are...that's nothing against you, it might just be how he is. ask him about it and be open and honest with how you feel and what you want. listen to what he wants and how he feels too. secondly, i think the people who posted before me have a point - although it might not apply to you personally. maybe you need to have a think about what it really means to be engaged. i read in another thread you have had sex with others in the past who were also financees. that implies that you have had at least two other fiancees other than the one you now post about. if that is the case, you have promised to spend your life with at least 2 others which has not worked out. maybe it would be good to think about why this is, and whether there is anything you need to explore / change about how you approach relationships and sex in general. of course, i don't know the other situations so i cannot assume that what happened with them was down to you - only you know that.
He's only horny after he eats certain foods? Maybe you should feed him more oysters :lol: :boat: . Ok, seriously-nobody is in the mood to have sex all time-no matter who they are. I saw another one of your posts where you said that you make him fuck you every day. Sex should be something that's basically spontaneous. Maybe he's not in the mood at exactly the instant you are trying to force him to do it. I know that would damn sure turn me off from wanting to have sex with someone altogether if I just felt constantly pressured to do it, and I'm a pretty horny person... I don't think the guy sounds like he's had too much sex. It just sounds like he's not in a very romantic or caring environment, at least from the little info that I can see about your relationship.
Thanks everyone. Oh yeah I just got off the phone with him and he wants me to choose between him or my friends. Who should I choose. I am too upset.
Him or your friends? What an ass. I see major controlling ont he horizon. Run like hell. And Charise? Not true. Always ready. Always horny. I've had women break up with me because I want TOO much sex. It's a sad life.
darlin, i think you need to dump him, you are 20, already with relationship problems before even getting married....he is already trying to control you and with sex problems what is your rush? and take my word for it, NEVER marry someone with sex problems
Hm, he just called me and I was yelling at him.. When he comes home, I am going to slap the shit outta him. me and his mom talked and I found out im not the first girl he threaten...i feel so SAFE....SAVE ME
I love him.. and i am willing to work it out with him. When you love someone.. u want it to work.. and right now.. i am not willing to sacrifice another 2 years being single
hm.. everyone cares. That is a feeling I had never recieved in my life. Thanks. I dont know guys. I love him with all my hearts. He treats me better then al my other ex's did.. lets see. I got raped by 2 of my exes.. cheated on by another 2 with their sister. 1 left. 1 I had to leave in taiwan. 2 more that just wanted my body. Hm. my fiance just doesnt wanna fuck me.. he yells alot cause his job puts stres on him. He is a emt.. Hm.. i am confused
Not all relationships work out. Your boyfriend seems like the, "i'm locking you in the closet, you belong to me" sort of guy. Like you cant talk to anyone but him.
yeah.. its fiance by the way. He keeps telling me that he rele cares for me and he doesnt want other guys to have me.. he is afraid of me running away. I mean i get his point of view.. but i wouldnt keep him like locked up.
I confronted him and said that same thing.. that shows how much you trust me. If you love someone, you shouldnt keep them bundled up.
