hey what do you guys and gals use for anal stretching? means stretching of the anal hole. i was thinking of buying butt plug to stretch it. cheers.
You don't need to stretch it, it streches pretty good on it's own. What you have to do is learn to relax your anal muscles and get used to the feelings.
Dildos and butt plugs are fine but you can also get hold of anal trainers which are like baloons that you place in your ass and then pump it to enlarge the balloon to whatever size you want, although you need to use plenty of lube. http://www.vidshop.com/toys/6553/Anal_Balloon_Super_Pump.html