Too young for a non-sexual relationship

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by razer, Dec 26, 2006.

  1. razer

    razer Member

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    I have a hypthetical question related to something that just happened to me.

    I just got home from the mall and I was really close to asking this girl if she was at least in high school (to be sure) and then asking for her number. She looked very young and I was worried she was too young, but I couldn't tell. She looked sophisticatedly dressed teenagerish, but young at the same time, the only reason I was considering it was because she looked exactly like the face and body I would want on a girl. She was just so hot because she looked exactly like I imagened my mirror match (mirroring my own features), that is why it was hard to say, no, she is too young for me.

    Anyway, I almost said something to her but lost track of her. See, I just turned 24 and I can pass as 17 and sometimes people think I'm even younger than that, so it was really hard not to still notice her since she looked younger than me by only a few years. Which is natural for attraction of guys and girls. I was thinking if she was at least a high school freshman and I look like I am in high school, could she be old enough for a non-sexual relationship with a guy, what about me? With a guy, yes, but if I am that much older, even though I only look a little older than her, it was a confusing idea. When people get older it is not unusual to have even an eight year gap in age for relationships of course. My sister looks like she is 16 and she is 22 so my family has very young biological age and for a guy we normally want the girl to be younger than us, not older than us so it can be tough for me to wait.

    You see what I'm saying about me looking really young and willing to date a girl in high school? It would be awsome too, and bad because she would be immature emotionally, but I'm not looking for actual sex. I would never have sex with a girl if she was under 18 and I'm in no hurry to have actual sex, instead of just a relationship with a very nice looking and friendly girl.

    This is just a totally isolated idea that happened by chance and I told myself not to do anything. I could have at least found out how old she was first and then I would have known. oh well. Some story...
     
  2. mrpwonder

    mrpwonder Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    If its non-sexual and you get alone well,,,,why does age matter???
     
  3. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Just ask her. Unless you're really immature or she's super mature, shit won't work. Even if she is super mature, but still in high school, don't do it.

    DO NOT FUCK THAT BITCH.

    Be homies, whatev. But keep away from that poon. I have all kinds of old man friends.

    Don't be a creepster.
     
  4. Zanarkand

    Zanarkand Member

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    You are just asking for trouble aren't you?
     
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