In a bit of a confusing situation

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by goofydrummer, Dec 19, 2006.

  1. goofydrummer

    goofydrummer Senior Member

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    There's this girl that ive been into for quite a while. At first she was one of those girls that I was admired from afar, didnt know her really, or thought I didnt really have a chance. Eventually we became pretty good friends. My feelings for her keep growing. Later, we hooked up probably about 10 times and we lost our virginity to one another recently, but still we remain friends. Im not quite sure how she feels about this situation. Im pretty interested in having a relationship, mostly because I havent felt so strongly about a girl before, even the few past girlfriends Ive had. I can't really tell if she just wants to remain friends or if she wants a little more. Both of us are pretty laid back and not very vocal about shit. For instance, well hook up and not really mention it again. How should I approach her about this without fucking up our friendship. :bandana:
     
  2. Haid

    Haid Member

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    You are already way past friends. She is just waiting for you to swoop down and make her yours. Just go for it, since youv'e had sex it can't get more uncomfortable if things don't work out.
     
  3. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    Did the sex go well for both of you? If so, assume she wants more from you. If not, go more carefully, but go after her.
     
  4. goofydrummer

    goofydrummer Senior Member

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    Yeah she was way into it. She didnt think shed like it at first but after she was begging me for more. I think ill talk to her pretty soon about it. Thanks people.
     
  5. so_what?

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    i'm 100% she wants a serious relationship :) go for her!
     
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