might sound strange but i met this girl on the internet and we get on so well. we are gona meet up soon and b4 u lot say 'she might b a man' i defo no she isnt and everything she says she is ..... problem is she lives like 250+miles away and i dont know what 2 do any advice
Well, lots of people hook-up over the internet. Some actually get married. Just give it a try for awhile and see how things go. If its indeed true love, you'll figure out a plan for the distance issue. Good luck!!
I found someone via another site for mixed people once. It was by accident and we hit it off. It wasn't a dating site and we were together for about a year. Hmm. Please remember a few things. Meet in a public place with a fair crowd. Please don't agree to meeting at his/her house or somewhere secluded just for privacy. There is plenty of time later. Just go with the flow like you would any date but be sharp about what they do, what they suggest. Listen to your gut and be on your guard. If something feels uncomfortable, don't agree to it even if you're pressured or you guys joke about it. Just make sure you feel safe and have lots of fun. I also want to add, please think carefully about the long distance. When we're in love and caught in the moment we think that anything is possible. Sometimes it is. But long distance strains a relationship and I know many friends who refuse to entertain any long distance relationships no matter how tempting or wonderful their love-interest is. Please think this through carefully! Remember that if it is hard to think of this now (second-guessing), it will be VERY difficult to break up and it will be very painful for both of you later. I suggest meeting this person because chances are you'll be very curious and full of what-ifs if you do not. And then think very carefully if you could ever see it working. Do think about the distance. I know there will be posters who will scoff at 250km, saying they've overcome it before but different people are different. Think about what YOU need. And if you don't know yet, go ahead and try. Best of luck.
The above two posts are right on the ball. My sister married someone she met online. Best guy she has ever been with in my opinion.
Enjoy your date! don't have high expectations, just go check it out and have a nice trip. some people meet their partner online, some people get ripped off online, most online hookups are less noteworthy
Well.....I met my boyfriend online....something I have never done (met someone from the internet) and thought I would never do. Guess thats why they say..."Never say never". Just be smart about it....like the others said...meet in a public place. For me, well I talked on the phone as well before I met him for about 2 weeks. Guess I was lucky cuz he was the same beautiful person that I had met online in person . I see it this way, how well do you really know people that you have met other ways...i.e coworkers, people you meet in town, at work, school etc....they have just as good a chance to be wackos as people online....there are weirdos everywhere. Sometimes you just have to trust your instincts and take a chance, just be careful! It could be the best thing to ever happen to you. Best of luck, and let us know what happens .
I think the problem is not seeing her for the first time...which you must do and in a puplic place. If everything as you expected, it is going to be very romantic..things will flow smoothly...You know thinking is more difficult than doing. Maybe little present..not much...and for sex if it occurs..there are many articles on the web. summary: be clean. do not bite, and nature will take it's path. The problem might be later..if you like each other..and that distance exist betwen both of you. But let us not go ahead of ourselves...if you really interested..first step ..go see her in PUPLIC place. Ps. what about Web Camera ?
