Marriage Compatibility - Astrology - Manglik - Kuja Dosha - Mars Effect

My precious sweetheart is supposed to be a Manglik.We are deeply in love,she can be a little difficullt sometimes, but nothing troubling,maybe its just a girl being a girl.It really isnt that much but after hearing about the Manglik trait,im kinda worried, i love her. Can someone please tell us about the future that we have together.When Im with her, it just feels like destiny willed us to be together but the Manglik issue has me worried because in a marriage there are a lot of other souls and hearts that can be broken.Even if it is not me,I would be happy if it says that my sweetheart has a happy future with someone else.Please Help.

I have attached a compatibility points chart, although the points chart is high,the manglik in-compatibility is there. the chart says it is acceptable but I would love to know all your opinions.

Boy
26th July 1977 10:20 PM
Vijayawada,India
Coordinates: 16.52° N 80.62° E
Girl
12 April 1984 9:00 AM
Mumbai,India
Coordinates 18.96° N 72.82° E

 

I am not too knowlegeable on Vedic. I can understand a little. I couldnt hazard a guess as to your compatability using vedic. I have come to feel that computer reports are ok, but not always reliable. I don't use them that often anymore. Too many people have told me they don't really feel that strongly about them. Just eyeballing the chart I see Leo and Aries sun signs. This is a good match by sun sign.

 

The Cosmo Compatibility Report for Boy and Girl from India.

Data for Boy: Data for Girl:
July 26, 1977 April 12, 1984
10:20 PM 9:00 AM
Vijayawada, India Bombay, India
16 N 31 80 E 37 18 N 58 72 E 50
Standard time observed Standard time observed
Time Zone: 5 hours, 30 mins. East Time Zone: 5 hours, 30 mins. East

Sun 3 deg 34 min Leo Sun 22 deg 25 min Aries
Moon 11 deg 58 min Sagittarius Moon 1 deg 25 min Virgo
Mercury 27 deg 33 min Leo Mercury 6 deg 42 min Taurus
Venus 21 deg 59 min Gemini Venus 5 deg 18 min Aries
Mars 6 deg 16 min Gemini Mars 28 deg 04 min Scorpio
Jupiter 25 deg 19 min Gemini Jupiter 12 deg 29 min Capricorn
Saturn 18 deg 10 min Leo Saturn 14 deg 37 min Scorpio
Uranus 7 deg 44 min Scorpio Uranus 13 deg 18 min Sagittarius
Neptune 13 deg 36 min Sagittarius Neptune 1 deg 24 min Capricorn
Pluto 11 deg 44 min Libra Pluto 0 deg 59 min Scorpio

Boy's Sun in Leo and Girl's Sun in Aries:

Both of you are independent, self-motivated individuals, very much concerned with your own creative work and interests. Girl, however, often acts in a manner that is socially inappropriate while Boy is more aware of appearances and is more concerned with the response of others. Girl is somewhat indifferent to other people's opinions, while Boy craves approval and affirmation from others.

You are both immensely proud and neither of you wants to take the back seat in any relationship. There is a great deal of harmony between you, but being two spirited and somewhat volatile people, when you clash your fights are likely to be dramatic and boisterous.

Boy's Moon in Sagittarius and Girl's Moon in Virgo:

Girl is practical, careful, discriminating, and somewhat conservative, while Boy is idealistic, generous, looser, and more of a gambler. Where Girl tends to play it safe or to follow a logical, well-defined, and secure path, Boy is inclined to take risks and act on faith. Boy is an optimist, while Girl, though not exactly a pessimist, is certainly a realist.

Girl is precise, fastidious, and loves order, while Boy can be careless and indifferent to the minute details that mean so much to Girl.

Girl will stay on a budget, while Boy finds it irksome (if not impossible) to do so! Girl is punctual; Boy, often, is not. Boy tends to exaggerate and promise more than is possible, while Girl is sober, clear, and impartial, and also more diligent about carrying out promises.

At first, Girl may find Boy's optimism and playfulness refreshing and attractive, but over time the two of you could have serious differences, especially if you try to convert one another to your own way of doing things.

Boy's Sun Square Girl's Mercury:

The two of you do not always see eye-to-eye on issues, and it is very easy for Girl to become critical of Boy. Compounding the problem is Boy's tendency to be very sensitive to criticism from Girl and consequently react defensively to this criticism. This need not be a serious problem however; a little tolerance for each other's right to disagree and respect for individual differences is all it takes to make personal differences interesting rather than annoying.

Boy's Sun Square Girl's Pluto:

Your relationship is intense and complex. You engage in deep, intense discussions and encounters that unveil your innermost thoughts, feelings, goals, hopes, fears, and ambitions. This is not a superficial relationship! You are very uninhibited with each other, and you open up to each other more readily than to others. Be wary of power struggles, however, as Girl, in particular, may be tempted to manipulate and control Boy. Also, either of you may feel threatened, embarrassed, or disempowered by revealing so much of yourself to the other, and consequently feel the need to be secretive and competitive with each other. You have a profound influence upon one another, for good or ill.

Boy's Sun Trine Girl's Venus:

Yours is a congenial and enjoyable relationship, for you both appreciate and like one another. You also share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures.

Boy's Moon Conjunct Girl's Uranus:

Your feelings towards each other change quickly. You are prone to have outbursts of laughter and gaiety and be quite zany together but at other times you get on each other's nerves. This relationship can be fun and inspiring, and interesting, especially if your relationship is not too close, but if you depend on each other or form a contract or commitment to each other, be flexible and be ready for unexpected changes in your plans, sometimes for better and sometimes for worse.

Girl's Moon Conjunct Boy's Mercury:

You enjoy long conversations, confiding in each other, sharing your inner feelings and thoughts. You enjoy "psychoanalyzing" each other and others as well. At worst, this can degrade into gossip and at best it can provide a depth of mutual understanding and self-discovery that is enlightening, nourishing, and refreshing.

Girl's Mercury Opposition Boy's Uranus:

You tend to be impulsive and impatient with each other, and misunderstandings can suddenly spill into arguments. You may accuse each other of being unreliable, inconsistent, and tactless.

Boy's Mercury Square Girl's Mars:

The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.

Boy's Mercury Trine Girl's Neptune:

You enjoy discussing any subject that has an imaginative or mystical quality - art, music, fiction, theatre, or religion. You kindle each other's imagination and ideals. You work together well in the arts and in humanitarian areas. You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport and often understand each other without need for words.

Girl's Venus Sextile Boy's Mars:

You inspire affection and love in one another, and have a particularly warm friendship. You also spark one another's creativity, artistic urges, and desire for beauty. This is a felicitous combination!

 

Compatibility Scores for​

Boy and Girl

Data for Boy: Data for Girl:
July 26, 1977 April 12, 1984
10:20 PM 9:00 AM
Standard time observed Standard time observed
Vijayawada, India Bombay, India
16 N 31 80 E 37 18 N 58 72 E 50
Tropical PLACIDUS Tropical PLACIDUS
Time Zone: 5 hours, 30 mins. East Time Zone: 5 hours, 30 mins. East

Sun 3 deg 34 min Leo Sun 22 deg 25 min Aries
Moon 11 deg 58 min Sagittarius Moon 1 deg 25 min Virgo
Mercury 27 deg 33 min Leo Mercury 6 deg 42 min Taurus
Venus 21 deg 59 min Gemini Venus 5 deg 18 min Aries
Mars 6 deg 16 min Gemini Mars 28 deg 04 min Scorpio
Jupiter 25 deg 19 min Gemini Jupiter 12 deg 29 min Capricorn
Saturn 18 deg 10 min Leo Saturn 14 deg 37 min Scorpio
Uranus 7 deg 44 min Scorpio Uranus 13 deg 18 min Sagittarius
Neptune 13 deg 36 min Sagittarius Neptune 1 deg 24 min Capricorn
Pluto 11 deg 44 min Libra Pluto 0 deg 59 min Scorpio
Asc. 9 deg 13 min Aries Asc. 5 deg 26 min Gemini
MC 6 deg 47 min Capricorn MC 23 deg 32 min Aquarius


Category Totals

1. Romantic and Sexual Attraction: 45

2. Similarity of Interests and Temperament: 143

3. Mutual Success and High Achievement: 101

4. Problem Solving, Communication, and Mutual Understanding: 59

5. Mutual Kindness, Friendliness, Pleasantness, and Peace: 107

6. Aggressiveness, Competition, Power, Success, or Violence 34

7. Adventurousness, Surprises, Disturbances: 117

8. Shared Creativity, Imagination, and Inspiration: 119

Given above are your compatibility scores in 8 different categories. A score of 100 is average. A score above 100 indicates that the trait is strong, and a score below 100 indicates that the trait is weak. More specifically, you can interpret the scores as follows:

Above 150 is very high. This trait is VERY strong!
125 to 150 is above average. The trait is strong.
115 to 125 is slightly above average. The trait is slightly strong.
85 to 115 is average.
75 to 115 is slightly below average. The trait is slightly weak.
50 to 75 is weak.
50 or lower is VERY weak!

Note that there is no strict dividing point in the scores so a score of about 115, for example, is at about the point where the trait is noticeably above average. As with most things in life, like height, weight, intelligence, etc., there is a gradual continuum of scores, but these dividing points are fairly good indicators of when a trait stands out as being strong or weak.

The titles of the categories are fairly self-explanatory, but here are some additional notes:

1. Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Physical appearance and other characteristics can affect how sexually two people are to one another, but sometimes you can be surprised that a person who is physically attractive is not as sexually attractive as another person, or vice versa. Astrologers believe that astrological influences have a big role as well. A very high score in Romantic and Sexual Attraction indicates that this is a hot relationship, which is exciting, but can be too hot for some people to handle, resulting in jealousy or over-emphasis on sexuality to the neglect of other sides of the relationship. A low score here does not necessarily mean that the two of you are not a good match, but just that sexuality is not likley to be the primary attration that has brought you together.

2. Similarity of Interests and Temperament: People who are similar tend to be good friends. If your score in this category is high, you are likely to find that you have similar interests and approach life in a similar way. A high score indicates a capacity for teamwork and a likelihood of remaining friends for a long time. If your score in this category is low, then you tend to be very different, and hopefully you complement one another. As a simple example of this, one of you may be more aggressive and the other person more passive in the way you approach life. One of you may be more philosophical and abstarct and the other person more inclined to be direct and deal with concrete facts. A low score in this category can lead to misunderstanding or lack of appreciation. However, if you can learn to appreciate your differences, you can utilize your individual strengths to accomplish different things that need to be done.

3. Mutual Success and High Achievement: A high score in this category indicates that the two of you are likely to plan projects together and work together to achieve goals. There is no guarantee of success in life, but the two of you do inspire one another to reach higher and to motivate one another to work to achieve your dreams. You have a dynamic relationship that keeps the two of you active, always exploring, and seeking to achieve more. The biggest negative possibility in having a high score in this category is that it pushes the two of you to achieve more and if you are unable to achieve your shared goals, you may feel frustrated or disappointed. However, if you do apply yourselves, it is likely that you will achieve your shared goals. A low score in this category indicates that the main attraction between the two of you is not to be a productive, dynamic team that can achieve a great deal. You may still achieve a great deal together but it is not the primary theme in your relationship, and it is not what brought the two of you together.

4. Problem Solving, Communication, and Mutual Understanding: A high score in this category indicates that you enjoy talking to each other, and you find that you are able to communicate well. The range of topics and interests may vary, and overall you find that you are able to establish good communication with one another. A low score in this category indicates that sharing of ideas is not the primary focus of this relationship. You may still be able to communicate clearly, but you are not likely to find yourselves talking for long hours, with one conversation leading to another in an endless stream of ideas.

5. Mutual Kindness, Friendliness, Pleasantness, and Peace: A high score in this category means that you are naturally inclined to feeling supportive and nurturing towards one another. You feel very comfortable taking care of one another, and you feel very comfortable with each other. A high score in this category is common among good friends and married couples. A high score indicates a likelihood that you can weather storms together and simply enjoy one another's company. A low score indicates that the two of you need to be careful to not be overly critical or harsh towards one another. If you refrain from being unpleasant or rough, you can develop a warm and kind relationship, but it is likely to take a bit more effort than with a person with whom you have a high score in this category.

6. Aggressiveness, Competition, Power, Success, or Violence: If either of you is inclined to be overly aggressive, dominant, or intensely driven to have power and success, then a high score in this category can lead to flare-ups and even animosity. If you have a high score in this category, you need to direct this intense energy towards a cooperative effort. You are likely to find that both of you feel impatient and driven to achieve more when you are together. If you can direct this energy positively, you can be a dynamic duo that can make things happen quickly, but both of you must be sufficiently energetic and in command of yourselves to succeed with this energy. A low score in this category helps you to be patient with one another to feel relaxed whe you are together.

7. Adventurousness, Surprises, Disturbances: A high score in this category indicates that your relationship and your lives together will not proceed as expected. Expect the unexpected! The two of you attract new things into your lives and you tend to have a lively and very active life together. A low score in this category indicates that it is likely that whatever plans you may have for your relationship are not likely to be disturbed by surprises. A low score leads to a more predictable life together with fewer surprises. Surprises can be good or bad so a high score is more of a gamble. A high score works well for people who have the creativity, imagination, and stability to turn unexpected changes into opportunities for greater growth and development.

8. Shared Creativity, Imagination, and Inspiration: A high score in this category indicates that the two of you are drawn to very creative and imaginative areas together. You are a bit like children together, exploring and having fun. When you are together, you are more likely to be open-minded, receptive, and interested in creative and imaginative subjects than when either of you is by yourselves. If both of you are mature and stable, a high score can provide you with a welcome creative spirit that enables both of you to enjoy life more and to step outside mundane daily chores and responsibilities. The two of you feel inspired and you are likely to follow an idealistic dream together. You must be careful to make sure that your dreams are not the silly dreams but really do have lasting value. A low score in this category indicates that the two of you were not drawn together by fantasies and dreams, and shared idealistic dreams are not a strong share interest of the two of you; you are more likely to deal with tangible and practical issues rather than imaginative ideals and dreams.



If you are an astrologer or student of astrologer, you may be interested in knowing how this compatibility profile is constructed. If you are not interested in the astrological factors that are analyzed, please skip this description of the astrological influences analyzed in this report. The astrological influences analyzed are as follows:

Category 1, Romantic and Sexual Attraction is based on aspects of Mars, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto to Venus between each other's charts and in the composite chart.

Category 2, Similarity of Interests and Temperament, is based on having a planet in the same zodiac sign or a similar aspect, such as both people having a major aspect between the same two planets.

Category 3, Mutual Success and High Achievement, is based on aspects of Jupiter to Sun, Mars, or Pluto, or Sun-Jupiter aspects between the charts or in the composite chart.

Category 4, Problem Solving, Communication, and Mutual Understanding, is based on aspects of any planet except Neptune to Mercury in each other's charts or in the composite chart.

Category 5, Mutual Kindness, Friendliness, Pleasantness, and Peace, is based on trines, sextile, noviles, binoviles, and quadnoviles of the Moon to Sun, Venus, or Jupiter, or of Sun to Venus between the two charts or in the composite chart.

Category 6, Aggressiveness, Competition, Power, Success, or Violence, is based on aspects of Mars to Sun, Uranus, and Pluto, or of Sun to Pluto between the two charts or in the composite chart.

Category 7, Adventurousness, Surprises, Disturbances, is based on aspects of Uranus to any planet between the charts or in the composite chart.

Category 8, Shared Creativity, Imagination, and Inspiration, is based on conjunctions, trines, sextiles, quintiles, and biquintiles of Neptune to any planet in the other person's chart or in the composite chart.

In the formula used, each aspect is give a specific value and the number of points assigned is stronger if the aspect is stronger. A mathematical formula is then used to weight the final result so that the average score is 100. Because each aspect is weighted individually, the details of the astrological analysis is very long, but this brief description gives you an idea of how the analysis is done. The number of different theories in astrology is enormous, and each astrologer uses a different combination of methods. The theories used here utilize sophisticated software to analyze many hundreds of factors into a final analysis of the compatibility in these 8 categories.

Regards - Subgoin