Um--Can I get some help on this one? Here's my little craptacular problem: I met this guy through a friend last January. He ASKED me to "be something more" to him after talking on the phone for about a month. I thought I was his gf in the beginning, but because of his "attitude" towards me( he was just a horny SOB), I realized I wasn't (thank goodness I never slept with him!), but we decided to be friends still. Still hung out with him, until I decided I didn't want to see him anymore.<<<All of this took place LAST YEAR. Fast forward... I haven't seen him since last year. We DO keep in touch (occasionally) through IM. Sad part about this is, I have feelings for him (always did), yet I mask them because of what happened between us before. Mind you all, I have a hunch that he likes me, but I dunno exaclty how--if it's real or he's just suffering from blue balls. I told what I wanted before, yet he still talks to me (and I sadly, to him). What should I do? State my true feelings (again) or just let it go? FYI: He's 21 and I'm 20.
Just be straight out with him, Tell him look I like you more then just as friends. I would like a more serious relationship but do to our past experiences I feel that you will be just using me to get your rocks off.Tell him that he needs to come clean with you on his expevctations for the two of you so you can decide wher you want to take your friend ship from here. God luck with this!:butterfly
yep, tell him the truth and remember that most folks don't change unless they really want to... but it sounds like if you ever need a toy to abuse, he's the kind to aim for. Some people are just toys and like being such, it's a reality of life. Alas, they tend to be the most charming men around for some reason
...And what is wrong with Blue balls ....??? Just a sign that the man is still healthy....well..and little deprived Hahahahahahah. If you like him, do not be too slow....
