Remote curiosity about anal stuff for straight guys

I dont think guys doing anal stuff is gay and I do think it would probably feel good. Its a bit of a taboo, more so than regular sexual activity. I was just wondering if anyone has any experience; Is it worth doing?, Does it mean you're gay?, is it possible to find a liberal enough female partner to try it?

 

Are there any straight guys who do it?

 

I have had a sexual partner in the past ask me if I'd get a strap-on and fuck him in the ass. I was all for it..mainly because I'm a dominant female. It shouldn't be -that- hard to find a partner willing to do that. From what I hear, it is worth doing because the prostate is located in the region and when it is pressed against, it makes for a very good orgasm for the men. It doesn't mean you're gay...if you're gay, that means that you can care for the same sex emotionally - it isn't just about the sex.

 

yea, your gay.

 

a lot of straight guys are into this, and it's my opinion that there are far more of them than anyone realizes...mostly because no one usually wants to admit it in front of people.

only about 30% of gay men even have anal sex, anyway. the numbers about the same for straight people. its not really a particularly "gay" form of sexual activity, and even if it is people often simply refuse it because they're too concerned with doing something that might cross some supposed boundry between "us" and "them." the reason people have anal sex is that it feels good. not everyone likes it, but for those that do it can be great.

the "male g-spot" can only be hit if the man is penetrated. it's called prostate stimulation. a finger, member, or toy applying certain kinds of pressure to the prostate can cause extremely intense orgasms. many, many men enjoy having a woman finger them while they give him head.

its an overwhelming sensation to be penetrated even by something small. my ex used to do that to me every so often, but she wasn't all that skilled at making it pleasurable so i eventually asked her not to. it is rather intimate though...i mean, you almost HAVE to be close to someone to allow them to do that to you. on one or two occasions i have attempted it on myself with much better results, but simply because of the unpleasantness of the territory and the occasional pain assosciated with the act, i really am not too into it. it can feel good, but its not my thing.

if you like it or are interested in it, give it a try. it may be really terrific for you, and theres no reason to settle for boring sex. do whatever you want. make sure to use lots of lube, and make sure you check out where the prostate is if you don't know so that you've got a better chance of getting something good out of the experience.

you can DEFINITELY find girls willing to do this kind of thing with you, especially if they're at all into kinkier kinds of sex (it really keeps them very dominant...in fact, thats how it started with my ex. when shes a foot shorter than you and cute as fuck, it's hard to take her serious if shes trying to be dominant...this is a sure way to get around that kind of problem, though)

 

nesta, you're right...!!!

funkmaster, you must try...!!!
i've tried many ways... by myself... with fingers and objects... and with my ex gf... we swapped our roles in bed... she fingered me... she liked and pentrated me with his tongue... i think there're sweet liberal girls that could do anything for love... and a boy isn't homo if he likes anal sex... it's simply a erogenus part of our body... (but i have to say... me and my ex gf are both bisex... even though we don't practise homo relationship... i've just given head once...)

 

...i forgot...

...great orgasms!!!

 

its def. worth tryin it, just start out small and wit a lot of lube, have fun...

 

My first experience was a girl who started fingering my arse while I was kissing her. And it felt awesome. I'm hetero but not homophobic, so if it feels good, I'll let her do it. And I fingered hers. Which she very much enjoyed.

So, a girl playing with a mans arse makes the man feel good. And like most things in life, and sex, if it feels good, why not do it? Get your wife / girlfriend / SO to do it. You too may be as surprised as I was.

A little lube on the finger or any other implement is essential. The anus has a lot of pleasure nerve endings, so it is going to feel nice if you are like me and can get your mind into it without any taboos getting in the way.

Mark

 

Even if you don't want to be penitrated, there's TONS of nerve endings on the outside, so rubbing and tickling is great alone.

 

Let go your guilt. Embrace the Bi within us all
I myself really love beening hammered,anal play is really a turn on, but I'm not truely attracked to men in general. I am though quite turned on by woman though.
So ..i'm not gay ok. I'm Bi.
But labels in general are just apart of the bigots system. If the world could just let go of labeling everyone perhaps we could actualy open up to the true love of the whole.

 

yea you guys are all gay, your fathers must be proud :/

 

well im a girl, and i like getting it in my butt. however my wont let me finger him there. its okay. i like the orgasms i get.

 

I'm not gay myself (I have spent a long time thinking about this, studying myself, and I can say in all honesty, and a non-homophobic way that I'm not gay - in a romantic sense at least).

But when it comes to sex, I am very keen on trying gay sex, and seeing if I enjoy it.

I have tried anal stuff before, using vibrators, etc,.. and it's a lot of fun, and can make sex better... but I've decided that to get the full experiance, I've got to have sex with a man.. so at some point in my life I plan to. Just to see what it's like, and to see if I enjoy it.

At that point I might be able to call myself bisexual, but even then I don't think it will be an accurate description.. but i'll turn that page when I get to it.

(Oh, I don't directly associate anal stuff with being gay, and I think that a lot of stright people can have fun with anal stuff without being gay - it's just happened that because anal sex is the majority of sex for gay people, it's been given that image - if you know what I mean).

 

A question... do u get orgasms being penetrated or fingering... without masturbating your penis...?

 

So far, no.

But that's only because I have to admit I've not spent a very long experementing with my ass. It's always been something in addition to the penis masturbation... something to make the penis masturbation feel better (which it does very much), but so far I've never tried it alone..

maybe I should... maybe when I get a partner next I will. Let them do the work while I just sit back and enjoy it

 

I know!!! That's why I'm curious. (please see my post on discovering the Perineum, which is that kind of area.) I have no problem with trying it out, in the future, but ya see, I wouldnt do it now because I'm livin' at home and the house is never empty and also, I'd like to do it with a (female) partner. And seen as I've never yet had sex, it's not gonna happen soon. But it remains a remote curiosity for the remote future.

 

Yeah, I have not ye tbeen able to give myself an orgasm through fingering my ass alone, but god damn man, when i get off and am fingering my ass... WHOA

 

my husband goes nuts when i lick him there one time he just started cumin