What is the one non physical feature u look for in the opposit sex?

I think I have to say intelligence. If I'm going to be attracted to a girl, she has to have a squared-away mind. No ditzes. No pop-tarts.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

Oh I like girls that are clingy! Except they can't call all the time. I don't mind girls that text message 24/7. And like at rock shows, I like the kinda girl that will jump in the pit. And when I'm walkin through the crowd, she grabs on to my shirt tail. And I like girls that have a combination of interest that are real random.

 

Who says there is only ONE non-physical feature that I look for?

Physical attractiveness may get your attention, but it is the last thing you want to use as a measure of whether you should be with a person. Beautfy fades, being a crazy bitch is something a woman only gets better at.

The things I look for are simple. She has to be emotinally mature, sane, have an IQ that can boil water (I'm talking Fahrenheit of course) and a libido to match it.

As far as looks go, I have to confess that they do matter to me. We're biologically programmed to be affected by the physical or it wouldn't be a universal human constant. I have to be at least somewhat sexually attracted to someone.

In a way its almost more important that she feel good about how she looks than that she look especially good. I can't stand insecure idiots who ask "Am I fat?" at every opportunity. Some girls pull that crap because they want attention. Others are just nuts. Either way it's not the kind of thing I'm willing to put up with. If a girl hasn't got her shit together emotionally, then she isn't worth being with.

Kelticman

 

first off...she has to be able to talk...not just be on the phone with me and say 'I LOVE YOU IAN...MEESHKA!' Has to be cuddley, intelligent, not buying into all that steareotypical crap(like stupid punk t-shirts). I also don't want anyone who isn't emotionally mature, becuase they annoy me. They've gotta be happy, upbeat, positive, and overall give off a good vibe. I also can not stand a closed minded girl. and yea, i hate to say it, but there has to be some amount of attraction.

 

I like it when a girl has no sense of humor.
Other than that she has to be dumb, ignorant, depressed, superficial and close-minded.

 

My guy has to make me laugh and has to have respect. Respect for me.. respect for others and respect for the earth and everything in it..If you have respect than all good things follow!

 

I look for humor and someone who can make me happy. But you gotta be my friend before I can truly love you.

 

at present, i would say emotional maturity, and all that implies. i'll admit to having a sort of fetish for young guys, but let's face it, they're irresponsible & make terrible husbands & fathers (a lesson learned from my current marriage!)

i like men who are compassionate and commited to peaceful living & communication. in addition, they need to be responsible, intelligent, funny, spiritual, and genuine.

there are few things sexier, to me, than a barefoot hippie dad with a baby sling - which embodies both physical and non-physical traits.

 

An appreciation for and knowledge of music. Also...a sense of humor, where he can find things funny that other people might not pick up on. Um...open-mindedness, passion for life and love, optimism (but not be annoyingly optimistic)...easy-goingness, and affection...confidence in himself...

Yeah, I'm sure there's more...

 

A smile. A bright natural smile that lights up a room. Which leads to a good sense of humour and a happy personality.


Cbrmale

 

Shoes, sense of humour, smile, hair...
I think thats it, if they past those tests then they;re usually in with me hahaha

Love Amanda

 

empathy #1. i think empathy provokes someone to be kind and beautiful, inside, and thats what matters. when someone doesn't have to convince themselves they're caring, that's ethan's gal.

 

A cute one at that!

 

Trust. VERY hard to find a woman you can trust with your life.

 

yer lookin' for a gal who can get your back in a brawl? some valkyrie or somethin'?

 

I mean, like a woman you could give the key to your safe deposit box, and trust she would not rob you and that she would come bail you out of a fix.


Like Casino.

 

lol, yeah. you need someone like ray liotta's wife in goodfellas instead.

 

Mrs. Gotti would be an excellent choice as well!

 

nah. she looks like she'd cut your dick off and feed it to the doberman if she caught you fucking some other chick. slash your tires, too.

 

Hell yeah. Except for the waking up with the gun in my face part.


And I hate it when my wife stalks my girlfriend. ; )