I gonna go with a no. The situation sound fucked up to me. I don't care if its gay, but its wrong to have someone be obligated to give you a blow job. This whole scenario sounds fake to me.
hate to break it to ya dave, old buddy... but you're a ginormous flamer. there's nothing wrong with that of course, but you need to admit to yourself that sucking off and giving hand jobs to other guys qualifies you as batting for the other team. maybe you're a switch hitter, but definitely not straight.
This doesn't make someone gay per se. Bi, maybe, but I know guys that have done this that have no romantic feelings for other guys. They just enjoy sex.
Ok, heres what i would describe as gay, and why this wasnt. Gay would include anal sex, kissing, feelings. With this, if the first guy didnt want it, all he had to do is say no thanks. If he did, he was aware of the rules. The blow was punishment for taking and not giving. That was rare, and only once did a guy have to give all one. And he had taken a few hand jobs without returning them. This was just sex for sex sake, and when one of the group had a girl friend (very small town, teen guys out numbered girls about 7:1 back then 30+ years ago), then he would drop out of the group. It just felt good to have a hand on yours that was your own.
The only way this wouldn't be gay, is if you liked girls as well. In which case you would be bisexual. This definitely qualifies as homosexual activity.
I never jerked another guy off, but I had a couple of friends over the years who would watch porn and jerk off in front of each other, I would like to play with other cocks
I dunno, was scared of what they might say. My girl and I are looking for a bi guy to hook up with. I really want to play with and suck a cock.
Yes, you're definately either bi or gay. But so what? Neither term is an insult...if anything, it shows you're more liberated and open-minded than most. THey're just words...arbitrary labels for a little gossamer thread of reality our minds can't really comprehend without naming and filing away.
When i was younger i had one or two male friends and we would masturbate and perform oral sex on each other and that was because we did'nt know any girls at the time and we were horny as fuck!
Even though I like a hot girl when I see one I would like to masturbate with a friend of mine. I wouldn't do anal and probably not oral unless we both did it to eachother and each had collateral. I have seen his buldge in jammers (he is a swimmer) and he looks pretty well hung. Also, it would be nice to have an orgasm without the work.
When I was a kid growing up I was part of a jerk circle. There were about 4 to 6 of us (all male) and it went on for most of my teen years. Some parties just engaged in mutual masturbation, others gave and received blow jobs and 2 of us allowed ourselves to be fucked. As a teen I was coming to terms with my sexuality. I engaged in all activities. It was a great deal of fun. Thank you for reminding me of some wonderful youthful activities.
Why does someone having a different persuasion than someone else make them more liberated and open-minded than most? Saying that EVERY PERSON WHO EVER LIVED has had a same-sex desire is just as closed minded as saying that EVERYONE is born straight and that homosexuality is a choice. I can agree with you that acting on a desire that is there makes them more open-minded than those who have the fantasy but are afraid to act on it, however just because someone doesn't have that fantasy doesn't make them any less open-minded. Being true to ourselves, disregarding labels, and doing what makes us happy without hurting others should be all we care about.