Im a guy..........a pretty sensitive one at that, unfortunately. My last girlfriend was my only serious relationship ever, and I was with her for 2.5 years. We were together from the time I was 15, I'm 18 now (we broke up 2 months ago). I really connected with her, and I believe she was definately a good soulmate. We both did better things while we were together, and had a lot of fun (but there was also a lot of fighting, arguing, etc. Mainly because she comes from a really bad family). So...now that I'm apart from her, after 2 months I'm FINALLY not feeling so much like shit, but I still am like desperately seeking a female. I dont even think its for the right reasons to be honest, I think its because I want someone to connect with and be there with me, someone to cuddle with, etc. My question is.....now that I've had a serious relationship, and I going to feel this way forever? Craving the opposite sex, because I feel incomplete? Its not about sex, or anything like that. Its just about wanting to be connected to a female in a special kind of way, if that makes sense. I felt like I was one with this girl, and now I feel like I'm split in half. At the same time of feeling the need for another female, I also DONT want to get into a relationship with one, because I'm not sure if thats the right thing for me now, in fact I'm pretty sure I need to let my wounds heal before I even consider another relationship. This could take a LONG, LONG time for me Any advice?
This is the time when you should grow as an individual. It's been about 10 months since I've been with anyone, and I've grown more independant and solid without other people. I've never been in that serious of a relationship, but give the whole dating thing time and deal with yourself before anyone else. Finding peopel to make you feel complete is just going to hurt them and yourself in the long run.
