Question for women, about older moth.. fu..ers!!!

Dawnsky and I probably dated the same 32 year old. However I was 21 at the time. He kept bouncing between three different continents, never being able to settle with a permanent job. Because of this the relationship was further strained by long distance until it abruptly (and finally) cut off. Being with that guy disfigured how I thought of many men, not just older ones. However, it gets better.

Your problem is that you want what you can't have, or aren't able to get. This frustrates you. Don't get the wrong impression, some older women DO love younger men. Some women just don't care. Others are naive and adventurous even when their birth certificate says 45.

By the way, I didn't mean you should take off your signature. I was just pointing out what caught my eye. You really should be happy with the person you are. I was surprised that you took off your signature. Don't worry about what others think because they're going to judge you anyway.

Thirdly, a handful of older gentlemen I've dated still dabbled with video games.... one of them was in his sixties, earning a 7 digit salary in a government job of all things, and he still needed his time to decompress and play on his pc. So don't get the wrong idea that only young people enjoy it! I couldn't care less if he liked it or not, frankly. I do play pc games myself and engage in the inane or really ridiculous sometimes lol. It's fun. Who cares?

 

I really liked this response . Well, i guess i should listen to Dawn Sky, i should enjoy life right now, and stop preocupying about women, wether they like me or not, i need to have more fun.
Though i understand i need to forget about the issue and just have FUN, sometimes people reach a certain stage in their lives when guy friends or getting drunk with them is no longer enough, you know? It's not like i'm desperate, but i think about love and sex all the time, i can't help it, and the media doesn't really help as they bombard you with propaganda about it all the friggin time. I think it's much easier to talk about having fun and just forgetting the whole deal, when you already experienced that particular area. I'm get so envious when people start talking about relationships, love and sex.

I'm changing my signature right now.

 

Hey, I thought I too had a "love and sex" problem but I don't think that's the case. I've recently had a bit of a falling out (nothing big), just drifting from the people I used to know. And I've finally realized it's OKAY. You're not being a rotten friend just because you feel you need a bit more. Perhaps it's more to do with you friends and that you're not being stimulated (no, I don't mean sexually but mentally) enough. It is probably best to sit down and think about ways that you can get out of YOUR rut.

It's not going to disappear magically, with leprechauns to lead you to the land of adventures. Go seek out groups and others with your same passions or interests. If you want to try something new, stop waiting around to do it with someone, just DO IT! You'll make friends along the way, trust me. (unless you have a booger on your forehead). And even that is debateable.

 

Go fuck some randoms. You'll stop worrying so much.

 

That could be your problem... Meeting potential dates in bars is not exactly the best plan, at least in my experience and the experiences of friends with whom the topic has come up. And hanging out at a buddy's house watching a game/playing a video game/whatever and drinking sure as hell ain't a scene where you're likely to meet interested women.

Having fun doesn't necessarily mean doing the same old thing you've been doing for fun. Definitely try something new, but pick something that you've always wanted to try, not something that sounds like it will be boring but a likely place to pick up chicks.

How much do you masturbate? (Don't really want an answer, just a question for you to think about.) Before we hooked up, my fiance apparently masturbated on average around 5 times a day (less when ill, more when bored). Sounds insane to me, but whatever it takes to get some relief so you can relax a bit around women, right?

 

No it's not about that frivilous stuff you mentioned. Older guys have a tendency to know what they want and want one specific person. Younger guys have no idea what they want and will flirt with whatever girl gives them instant gratification. They don't know what they want and are a little less loyal than older guys tend to be or are not as skilled at hiding it yet and it makes me hesistant to get involved with anyone my age or younger. You want somone who knows who they want, not just anyone remotley attractive.

 

usualy younger man are immature...thet's why i prefer older gyus

 

Young girls are equally immature. It's not as if your average seventeen year-old girl, in a relationship with a 30 year old, has her mind as the main attribute in that relationship.