Hi, My one year relationship with my GF is on the rocks because I learned of to incidents that occurred in the first four months of dating. Other than these two incidents(involving drugs if you're curious), our relationship is excellent, but I am having serious trust and frustration issues and am not sure how things will turn out. To be clear, I absolutely hope and suspect that our relationship will pull through, but I am having a hard time. My question. I've noticed that in the past week since the problems started we've been exceptionally sexual. I think this is because it is the part of the relationship we're most satisfied with at the moment. Anyway, I got to thinking that the sex might be inhibiting our chances of success because it is clouding our other feelings about the emotional connection. Also, I think the sex might make us hold onto the relationship longer than is healthy if we are'nt meant to be. So, do you think it is a good idea to propose not having sex(or limitng it) until our relationship is mended? Thanks for your thoughts.
Might this go better in the relationship forum? I can't say I have any advice for you, but maybe someone there would.
Can't really help you unless you elaborate on the two incidents. Not seeing how it could have a big effect on the relationship. Sounds to me like you are really pissed about whatever happened and because of that you are having second thoughts. But as far as I'm concerned, the fact that you are having lots of sex is a good sign for the relationship. I know that if I was really pissed at my gf, I wouldn't even want to touch her.
