Yeah, it's odd. Like, the only time i feel gay is when i see really really good looking guys. And its not like, all i want to do is kiss him. I want to do.... everything =X It's extremely all or nothing, and 99% of guys fall into the "nothing" category. I'm completly opposite on women. I have really, really low standards. I figure maybe if i get with 1 really good looking guy i'll come off my high standards, maybe. I'm young and pretty fit, but i'm not on the same level as guys i'd consider the minimum. Also this kinda deters me from going to gay bars, as i'd assume the chances of finding a really hot guy there pretty slim = / For a while i pursued a silly fantasy by taking extra trips to the gym locker room (im in the gym a lot) to maybe catch a glimpse and get some rl experience on the situation and maybe let a guy catch me checking out his stuff or see if anyone glanced at me a little too long, but the gym locker room is full of old guys and fatties so i end up getting really, really grossed out. Sooo any advice? I excercise a lot so maybe in six months or so i'll be about on par for what i'm looking for, but what then? I should probably check out a gay bar, but i'd assume its full of middle aged dumpy guys and my stomach clinches the same way a straight guy's would at the thought of having relations with them = /
. It sounds like you're going to have better luck finding a woman who'll please you. Don't waste your time looking for the prefect man, he doesn't exist. .
I dunno if you're necessarily gay or even bi, might just appreciate a good physique on a man. However, it's good that you're willing to hold off experimenting til you're with someone you're actually attracted to. Saves a lot of confusion in the long run. There's certainly no reason to exclude the possibility just for the sake of having an orientation.
well, theres billions of possibilities, but it all depends on how curious you are and so forth. if you can go to a gay bar or something, then why not just go? if you dont liek the people there, then you can simply leave, its not that hard, hehe. but yeah, its good youre keeping an open mind about it. i was kinda hte same way when I first started realizing i was gay. i only was attracted to really good looking guys, but its only because they are what blatantly captured my attention. after i was more comfortbale with the idea of being gay, and i had my first gay kiss, then it changed. so yeah, just kidna try things out. go to a gay bar, or group, or something. look up whats availabe where ya live. good luck dylan
