When I lost control, I go nuts!!!

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by ketchup_blue2070, Nov 26, 2006.

  1. ketchup_blue2070

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    Its been forever that I've premature ejac prob. I thought it'll go away as I grow older but I was wrong. It's still the same, I can't have sex because of this, I can't last long and especially after I came. I can't keep the same sexual momentum, I lose everything, I can't see her the same way, I get really frustrated and sometimes when she comes closure I feel lyk pulling her back. I don't want to do that, I love that girl, I don't want to screw my realtionship because of my immaturity. Anyone has better solution for me!!!
     
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    There are six or seven things you can do to control premature ejaculation:
    1. Practice counting each inward thrust - soon you will be concentrating in the counting and not the cumming - try to count to 100.
    2. Use the old Kama Sutra technique of thinking of your penis as pulling something out of your woman, not putting something into her.
    3. Just before you cum, gently push down on your balls from above- as you approach orgasm they no longer will hang loosely, but rather ride up closely to the shaft. Pushing down will retard orgasm for a while.
    4. Use a thicker condom, or desensitizing cream on your penis before sex.
    5. If you feel like cumming, just stop inside her for 30 seconds - it is the friction that stimulates your orgasm - no friction, no cum.
    6. Practice going in and out only 2-3 inches, which are the most sensitive parts of her vagina (and your penis).
    7. Best of all do the "sets of nine": do nine short thrusts, then one deep thrust, then eight short and two deep, then seven short and three deep, etc., until you do 1 short and nine deep. I guarantee you will blow soon after, and so will she.
    I am a lay sex therapist, and I have helped a lot of young men with your problem, which is very common. Let me know if these techniques are helpful.

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