Hello Ihmuria- univercity, is a institutio nfor peopel for future life. you go there, get a job and yo ulive ur life workign on society. Girls arnt animals, they can learn and repeat what they've been taught . But self- controling, and thinking , or applying logic is a hard thing and diffuclut thing it seems to them, strangly i wondered many times, but its the way it is- nature. When it comes to girl boy relationship it is seen very good. If a smart boy starts talking to a girl abotu somthign smart, really smart things. What girls will think.. ? wow smart boy , iwant him ? .. no hes fucked, smart ass , lsoer, fucker, etc. this is not what you need? right ? you need love and everythign with it. and anythign else you dont care about. No need to gain knowledge, improve urself, become smarterif you have a great partner to spend time with and fuck eh
Hmmm sums up a lot about being young really ! The girls are trying to show how mature they are and the boys are trying to show how cool they are! Still think of it this way - if you cant beat em - join em
Based on the quality of your grammar and thoughts, I'm going to guess your experience of girl's interacting with 'smart' guys isn't first-hand.
yea you killed this one. Maybe you can tell what colour are my eyes by the way i write ? I originally from Ukraine, live in this great country of Canada for 4 years. this is so far what i've learned. In the beggining knew Hi my name is Andriy. thats it. i think i learned this much and like that, cuz of my smart brain.
well, everyone is like that to an extent, so just go with the flow and have fun joking. and eventually you will get to the intelligent stuff. You need a good mix really. of course, this person I used to know, is probably a lot like the people you describe. she never had anything interesting to say and for almost a year would always say "vagina"! it was a joke that grew stale after a day, yet she continued for a year. so in that sense, I know what you mean.
Correct spelling and proper grammar are sexy, in my book. I love smart guys. I've always dated nerds. Most of the guys I've dated were either in university or planned on going (and are now in, hey, the high school bf was still in HS when we broke up). A smart guy is different than a smart ass, or someone who's so full of himself that you can't talk to him. Discussing ideas is great, being cemented into your position because you're sooooooooooooooooooooooo sure you're right is really unattractive in a guy.
Um. How can you tell when people are"neurotic, psychologically challenged?" Intelligent people often will DISAGREE with you. That doesn't make them neurotic. I went to University and had some of the most amazing conversations of my life. Not everyone agreed with me about every thing, duh, but everyone who was able to have an intelligent conversation taught me something. EIther about the subject, human nature or value systems. Maybe stop judging people so much, stop blaming and start ENJOYING the companionship of others, whether they agree with you or not. People are different from each other, that's part of the fun of college. I would like to know what you consider "neurotic, psychologically challenged" as well as how you know that people are these things as well.
In my personal experience, I found people to be very intelligent, yet a bit crazy. One guy especially - now he graduated but he was very intelligent indeed, but I had to constantly talk him out of depressive thoughts and mentalities, (very depressive and violent). That I term that neurotic. He was seeing a psychiatrist, I call that psychologically challenged. Second, I don't care if people disagree with me, I do not have a problem with that, my point here was that many people who are not neurotic and psychologically challenged are in of themselves very ignorant. They waste their time with non productive work , fill their minds full of sex , and suggest you do the same. Also, know that I never say these things to my friends... I am here complaining because this is what I have observed to be true.
Fistermister - you dont understand, there fore you wont have much enjoyment in real relationship, it will always be followed or accompanied by problems, brain fucking, depression etc. Ihmurria - hehe, your first line tells everything and proves my point girl of course girls like / love smart guys ! But they DATE nerd )) right ? and smart guys you think dont wanna date ? of course they do, but eh.... they are not like nerds, they dont get to kiss/pet/hug/ fuck a girl like you for ex. That is what i am talkign about . if you are smart you can be flexible and have positive expirience, and of course . I dont talk about my self.. becuase i am smart, we talk about topics that are interested mainly by ur side, because in this case yo uwill talk, and have interest in talkign right ?
Nerd = smart with a lean towards things like computer games rather than partying it up, but yeah, nerds are smart people by my definition.
Because yo ulike them ,and they do it right in sexual context, why not like them ? )) u are typycal girl you deserve a kiss ( kiss )
(vomit) I'm pretty damn far from typical hon. Anyways, this conversations has really gotten off topic. Jedi, you're 20. Most folks around our age are, well, pretty fucking clueless. Not to say that you or I know everything, but, there are a lot of dunces around our ages who got into university thanks to their parents money. You know how to be selective with your friends, how to pick and choose who to spend your time with, so do it. You want ot meet more like-minded people? Join a club or three at university. Whatever your major is, it's pretty much guaranteed to have a club. If nothign else, there are a great many networking clubs (ie AIESEC) around that you can look into. It's not perfect but it's a start.
SO? You have a "case study" of ONE dude who saw a psychiatrist? How does that translate into "all" the people at college are "neurotic and psycholgically challenged?" My point was, you don't have the ability to be able to DIAGNOSE these things. Even Clinical Psychologists need a minimum 6-8 years of college and a good few WEEKS of concentrated diagnostic sessions to be able to diagnose people. A LOT of people see psychaitrists, in fact, those who do are actually judged (by those who know what they are talking about, say, Clinical Psychology Researchers) to be MORE HEALTHY emotionally than those who refuse help when it is obvious they need it. You need to take people as they are. Everyone has Issues. Looking for a perfect person? You won't find one.
Maybe I don't have the ability to diagnose these things yet. However, I do not think that I need a diagnosis to tell a person is crazy - if that person wants to kill off his family and half the people walking on campus. Second, Yea thanks for your advice about how I need to take "people as they are" , I still don't agree with the idea that if people are stupid/ignorant, thats how I need to take them... but I will restrict my communication to just minimum.
I am not surprised that mental heath profesionals find that people who see mental health professionals have better mental health than those that don't. Kind of like mechanics noting that cars that receive regular maintainence run better than those that don't. Back to the OP, not everyone can talk inteligently about the same subjects. A person who is into music might not be able to (inteligently) join in a discussion of politics. On the other hand, everyone knows enough about superficial things to gab with others. Therefore, if you randomly mix people, most conversations will be about superficial subjects. BTW, if there is a "purpose in life", I suspect it has more to do with sex than with Kant. So, which conversation is inteligent might not be the one that is more important.
Damn right, MikeE. So, you have an entire campus of budding psychopathis killers? C'Mon. Blatent insanity is one thing, but to say that everyone on your campus is either a sex maniac or "neurotic" C'mon. WHERE the hell do you go to college?
