Devin - see my post under the previous masturbation thred on how to stop premature ejaculation. Regarding inability to get an erection, are you talking about during masturbation or intercourse. At 16, if it is intercourse, it probably is "performance anxiety", which will go away as you get more experience making love to a woman. Tell us more about yourself, and keep us posted. Cutted
Well as for getting an errection, get some sexy pictures of people you think are really hot, go thorugh the internet, go steal a playboy, or even just go find a victoria's secret catalog, whichever works for you, then just let your fantasty run wild man, That's the great thing about imagination, you can do whatever you want, we all have some weird kink that we really get off too, let your imagination run wild with it.