as I now join the ranks of those being dumped. Yea. Man, I hate this feeling...it sucks worse than a vacum cleaner. Sigh. I hate how when you think you can't cry anymore, you always can.:bigcry: Anyone in hereup for a big:grouphug:? Lol.
congradulations are in order better that ya found out he cant handle a relationship now then in 5 years isnt it? congradulations..the hurt will fade, and in time things will look brighter then ever vaccums may suck, but theyre the best way to clean house
yopu edited as ityped..i'm allllllllways up for a big group hug i'll start..and everyones welcome to join in hugs!!!!!!!!!!
Thanx so much! And yes, it is the best way to clean house next to Windex of course lol (thanks My Big Fat Greek Wedding).
were things really that great when he dum..err..i mean liberated you? how long were u together? still huggin and not lettin go
Aww, thanx! *hugs back* Well, he's 53, is married & lives in England-recipie for disaster I know. I'd say things were pretty good until 2 days ago. Then, today for some reason, he says he doesn't want to do it anymore...the frustration & grind of it's getting to him among other things. I know he isn't the best I could do, but it doesn't make things any easier for me.
ahhh well in that case yes its a liberation..if u stayed hung ip on him, what chances are there youd meet someone special..near..and availible?
True, true. If you happen to read some of my other posts, you'll see that I am very sweet on a guy in a band & aulthough this'll sound funny, I've been praying nearly every night since I met him that I end up w/him, so I'm starting 2 wonder if this is in some way my wishes/prayers coming true...
Sigh, yeah, I suppose so. It still hurts though. At least if I do end up w/the other guy, this'll all be worth it lol.
Well, in a small update, things are ok between us, I think he realized what he did & said. A few things have changed for me though. I feel different than I did b4. Like, I'm willing to see how things go. If he gets it together b4 someone better comes along, he wins. If not, he looses. And I'm ok w/whatever happens.
So, um, what is wrong with you? You said he's married? Why were you messing around with him to begin with, muchless giving him another shot after he got some sense for a minute and dumped you (though apparently lost his senses again)? Let's see what the options are: 1. He keeps this whatever going with you on the side until you find something better. Great, I'm sure his wife would be thrilled. 2. His wife catches him, sues him for all she can get, and he either comes crawling to you or cuts ties with you as he starts his new life with one of his other mistresses. 3. He actually leaves his wife for you. Let's say you actually get him (he leaves wifey or wifey kicks him to the curb)... How long till he's cheating on you? How will you feel about that? I firmly believe that if you're fucking around with a married person, you deserve every bit of heartache you receive, and then some. You're doing a despicable thing. Remember this when your husband one day is fooling around on you.
