that's awful Do you or have you talked to anyone about this besides posting it here? How do you deal with it? Some people are good at handling these things, it seems. I don't know if I could....
hi melancholia, i told my best friend when i was 17, then my b/f who is now my husband, finally i told my mum about one of them, but couldn't bring myself to tell he about the other, it was my father and grandfather, now both dead thank god. i did go to some councelling a few years ago but it didn't help, i did psychology as part of my uni course so i was always 1 step ahead! i went a bit off the rails for a while, did some drugs, was anorexic from the age of 15 but since i met my husband, my life has started to turn around, he's been a power of strength. love michelle
I can only begin to understand how hard it must have been for you. I have a few issues of my own that I'm only beginning to come to terms with, but was never abused in such a manner. I just cannot understand why people do such horrible things, but at the same time, you have to accept the fact that they do - things happen - and you move on. I'm happy to see things are turning toward the better for you. Stay strong.
yes, there are some really bad people out there, if you try to figure out why they did it, it can really fuck with your mind. the frightening thing is how many people it happens to. you can either let it ruin your life or you can try somehow to move on, its hard and you often find when other bad things happen you only see how terrible your life has been. but if you try, you can see good things happen too, plus its true what they say, there's always somebody worse off............... i won't let those bastards ruin my one chance at life, they can't take that away.
wow twisting you seem like such a strong person. im terribly sorry to hear about the abuses of your past. i dont know if i could have coped with something like that. im so happy to hear that you have found someone who does love you now and who helps you stay strong. whenever that stuff starts fucking with your mind.. just remind yourself you are worth more than that and you are too beautiful and good of a person to let that shit hold you down. bless your heart!
I was almost sexually abused by someone close to my mother when I was about 15 or so. Amazing how I never really let it get to me...but I have my times when I see him and wanna rip his head off for being a disgusting jackass. *sigh* Guess my thing wasn't so much - why would he do this to me - it was more, why would he do that to my mom? She never found out thought, and I doubt she ever will. Anywho...I can relate. :& Stay strong, alright? Peace & Much love.
thanks bella, look at this pm this asshole sent me "I guess that the next step here would be to put a huge cock into your anal cavity and then after you can suck the caca off it that should cut your appetit and you should lose some of thoses unwanted pounds you have been wanting to all thoses years. Now shut your fucking mouth you damn stupid and annoying slut of a bitch" posted by: 02:50 AManusjuteux nice eh?
Yes, definitely report the scumbag, but don't let it bother you. I've been on Usenet, IRC, message forums, etc... for years. You get used to this sort of thing - there's always at least one in every crowd.
Oh my God, what an asshole! Have that moron banned, sweetie...that was so wrong on 10 different levels. I can't believe how stupid and insensitive people can be. Just rise above it and realize that karma is a bitch...he'll get his.
thanks everyone for your support, the guy is just a dickhead and obviously shagged in the head, under his user name on the pm it already said he was banned, so i don't really understand it. you're so right about karma, suppose i should feel sorry for the guy, surely people can't honestly be that unkind?
Some people do have it in them to be that unkind...but its usually as a result of a bad life or something. So, I suppose the kind thing to do -would- be to forgive him, but forgiving has always been a hard thing to do for me, until I started living the lifestyle I do now. It is true about karma though...regardless if he is forgiven or not, that pm will be a mark against him either way - and it may not be good for me to say, but he really deserves it!
