Love at first sight

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Alloy, Oct 9, 2006.

  1. Alloy

    Alloy Member

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    My feeling was that I was extremely attracted to these guys immediately. I kept thinking about them even though I didn't know them except for a random occurence. The second guy was more attracted to by his looks. The first guy was by his personality. Since I am dating one of them now and plan to marry him, I do believe it was love at first sight.

    I experienced love at first sight twice, I think. I was wondering what the feeling is like for other people? What is love at first sight?
     
  2. BeyondHeroism

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    I don't believe in love at first sight. Lust at first sight, and love may come later.
     
  3. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    i disagree i totaly believe in love at 1st site..altho sometimes its not a romantic love, but iknow a couple of the women i feel the closest too as freinds the connection was instantanius..& the other kinda love at 1st sight i've experienced a few times as well, just the prob is u might love someone at 1st sight, but not be able to get along well in a real relationship
     
  4. OMD

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    im in two minds about it. dont know.
     
  5. jacobfredjo

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    i TOTALLY believe in love at first sight. ive seen lots of beautiful women in my days, but theres one or two that when you walk by them, you realize how lucky some guy is to be able to wake up to that face every morn...and you cant help but fall in love....at first sight! I wouldnt neccessarily say the more attractive a girl is, the more you feel like you had a love at first sight event. In fact, they just have that one quality you cant quite put your finger on.....which is why you are so drawn to them.

    LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT IS TRUE !
     
  6. dirtydog

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    My first sexual experience was with a fat Tijuana whore, at age 17. I paid my twenty bucks, shot my load, and got the hell out of there.

    My most lasting and profound lovemaking experience was with Eleanor, a fourth year mathematics student at university. She looked something like Diane Keaton at age 20. We would lie on her apartment floor for hours, just looking at each other, and hardly ever kissing for more than an hour at a time.

    About four or five months into our relationship, we consummated things. It was her first time. She kept saying "Don't stop, please don't, please don't stop!" I was hopelessly in love, a lost puppy. I worshipped the ground she walked on.

    And of course, I let her get away. It was lack of funds, or commitment anxiety, or some crap like that. Eventually she moved back East, and that was that. I did love her then, and I will never forget her.
     
  7. woozie

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    I dont. RIGHT now and the last week I know what love feels like. It doesnt necesarily have to do with beauty at all. It started so randomly and I have known this girl for a long time.
     
  8. ethanberry

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    Yeah, it's more of attraction at first sight. Love, darling, is a choice.
     
  9. Alloy

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    I disagree that love is choice. I believe that love is a feeling. As far as love as first sight goes, I had it. I told him I loved him after a week of dating. I just knew it. I didn't care if it sounded crazy. The feeling that I had about him from the first time I met him is still the same now.
     
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    I believe in attraction at first sight, but not love. You don't know *everything* about them in order to love them. The guy you feel instantly attracted to when you first see him may have some seriously bad habits you can't reconsile yourself to live / deal with, for instance. I do believe that some connections are spiritual upon first meeting and are stronger than normal and those can't be ignored, butregardless of the connection you have, it may only end up being a life-long friendship, instead, especially if there are things about them you learn later on down the road you can't handle relationshipwise.
     
  11. karmajewel

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    I'd like to believe in love at first site, but it's never happened to me!
     
  12. J0hn

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    Had love at first sight before. Fell in love with a girl when I laid my eyes on her. she was kind of cute. That is what my eyes look for:


    1) Cute
    2) Innocence
    3) Artistic
    4) Their clothes.
     
  13. gesone

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    I don't believe in love at first sight. Love takes time and dedication, and that takes longer than an instant to achieve.
     

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