Free Love = Slut?

vraiment, you rock

 

Have sex. Have fun. But most importantly, be safe.

I agree that the only thing that makes one a slut is when they purposely fuck with others feelings in a mean way while doing the actual fucking. But if its fun and safe, and theres no hurting of feelings (purposely) involved, then go for it.

 

i'm not for or against it... but i do think it's really silly that people break up because someone kisses someone else or has an emotional bond. i think that if you were secure with yourself and the connection you had with a person, you wouldn't care what they did with anyone else. but if you both felt equally about eachother, and felt that you were soul mates, you wouldn't want to be with anyone else anyway. showing affection, in any form, should never be "forbidden", and you don't need to "draw the line" somewhere, because a hug with a best friend is different than a hug with a soul mate, and that translates over into all physical affection.

 

perfect answer

it's this shit that makes you so damn awesome =P

 

I like drama.

 

Now that is a totally different point that I view differently (As the OP admitted they did not clarify), and I applaud you on this.

 

Of course me, only me candecide if having a one night stand with somebody would be meaningless or not. Only myself decides if it's meaningful or not . Why the hell should you decide ?

I really think that you should stop attacking people and saying they are ''close-minded'' because i think you are absolutely close minded. You won't recognize any opinion differing from yours which is the defintion of close minded.

 

Meaningful isn't a good standard of value to use.

Masturbation is far from meaningful, but nobody whines about it being shallow all the time.

 

thanks george.

to be fair, i didnt read the OP when I wrote that. I just read random parts of the thread.

 

Whoa man, I didn't mean it like that. Try reading the posts above it and chech what context it was used n.

 

I only say eventually because, i myself hate dating because i am a sexual being that likes and cannot function properly without sex. I tend to trust people easily and would rather just stay with one person, then get hurt by numerous people. I only ever had one fuck that was close to meaningless, and it hurt. It didn't hurt at the time but later on when i thought about it, i felt cheap. I'm over it now, but i still regret having sex with him.