postcoital cuddling

well i like to cuddle but i never get to be held by my hunny it's usually me holding or huggin him i would just like it foronce if he would be uncomfortabel for just one minute and hold me instead of me holding and cuddling him. i like to cuddle right before i go to sleep but my hunny is usually off into dreamland as soon as he hits the bed. so i dont get to cuddle as much with him but i have my son laying right next to me so i cuddle with him instead.

 

I didn't like it before, but now I've gotten into that "sex is more than just SEX" mindset an dif the person I'm sleeping with doesn't at least wrap his arm around me or touch I feel disgusting and used.

 

As long as he is naked I'm fine.

 

Sorry......

CUDDLING.........WHAT IS IT GOOD FOR?.......ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING....

 

Sorry, didn't mean to...but in our defense, we WERE talking about cuddling originally, then it turned our asses on, and we began to fuck all over your thread. Sorry bout that stain...it should wash off in a few days.

 

I could get tarred an fethered for this, and I'm afraid it's going to completely screw my reputation, but I can actually live without sex... but not without the contact. The need for simply physical contact is more essential to me than sex, hands down. But then, I'm more sensually than sexually oriented in the first place.

 

I'm 50/50 on it.

 

I dont think i can explain it better than that

 

I feel apprecieted and loved when me and my bf cuddle after sex. We're both big fans of cuddling, petting and everything that lets us get close to each other sexually or not... soaringeagle is totally right...

 

I love cuddling, at all times, as long as I love the person. It can be a friend and Im all over them it can be my mom and Im all over her,
in a sexual way if I like the person I want to cuddle, and cuddling usually becomes in foreplay.. only twice I didnt want to cuddle with this guy, it was so wrong that I just wanted to fall asleep and forget about it and once I slept with an ex, I felt so let me get out of here.
But all the other times cuddling is good, I want it, I need it.

 

Its weird because there have been times where I was just like I cant cuddle with this person.. but now with Derek pretty much afterwards there is ALWAYS cuddling.. I think it makes me realise that he does want to be there with me its not a "wham bam thank you ma'am" kinda deal.. granted there have been days where its been like ohhhhh shit we have to go to work.. or ohhh shit your parents are gonna be home... but otherwise he always snuggles and pulls me close... usually we fall asleep in each others arms its just so amazing... but I have to shut up now because he's gone for 6 weeks now and its gonna make me miss him too much

 

I'm usually too busy writing the check out.

 

I have to have it...... I feel like a piece of meat if he won't cuddle with me after

 

I must say that, as a guy, I feel like a total tool if I just get in, get out, get up, and leave. =(

I have to have the cuddling afterwards. Otherwise it's just like masturbating, except more time consuming.

 

Sometimes the gf and I do, other times not. It's not a big deal if we don't, neither of us get offended.

 

With my girl and I, it usually begins with cuddling and then we make love...and after I've had some water, then we cuddle...we like to lie in bed for a whole afternoon sometimes just talking

 

I've always liked a good cuddle after sex. It usually leads to more sex.

 

I Prefer Not To. But On Those Occasions When She Does. I Will.

 

I'm a major cuddlebug at all times -- except after sex. Coitus wears me out, readies me for sleep. Though I enjoy feeling a lover's body draped across mine as I nod off, I can't stand being kept awake with questions, jokes, sweet nothings or suggestions for next time. That stuff has to wait for my second wind.

 

I gotta figure any woman who lowers her standard so far that she'd have sex with me deserves at least 6 orgasms and 40 minutes of PCC. Minimum. Non-negotiable.