Well guys, I feel I have no other place to turn but this forum. Sounds kind of sad I know. But, here it goes. I just began my first year of college. My girlfriends and I decided to continue dating while i was away at college. Quickly we relaized that it was not working and we should both do our own thing. Then, I met this girl; she is amazing. She is everything I am looking for in a girl, but... she has a boyfriend from her hometown (about an hour and a half away) that she's been dating for some time. Despite that, she seems to be interested in me. Is there anything I can do to put myself over the top and get her to second guess her boyfriend? Thanks guys!
don't force her to do anything dude. thats weak. if she has a boyfriend don't intervene, i find it in bad taste. go for someone single.
Consider the fact that the way she treats her current boyfriend (him-now) is the best indicator of how she will treat her future boyfriend (?you-soon?). Deal with her in a way that helps her treat her current BF well. (An honest "this isn't working" is not treating him poorly.)
come on dude your askin us how to help you manipulate her not gonna do it try being her freind..if theres a prob with her bf she'll talk to you..but dont just truy to turn her against him, be fair to both sides..try to help her fix things with him..and if they cant be fixed..be there to support her..dont try to force things, if its meant to be it will be but you sound immature like you just want to trick her into being with you manipulation might work for a momment, but will only make you hated in the long run
Ohhh no guys I didn't mean it all like that. I guess I worded it poorly. I'm not trying to steal her away from her boyfriend. I'm sure he's a good guy. But, she has made comments in front of me about being irritated with her boyfriend. I don;t know if that means anything. But, I guess what I'm trying to say, is there anything I can do to have a chance with her? (without dicking her boyfriend)
