A Married Man....

He's so fucking sexy! I haven't been able to stop thinking of him, and clearly he has a hard time getting me out of his mind.... we've already fooled around a little bit, kissing and touching-and I have never been so turned on in my life...

here's the thing... I don't look to fall in love with him, nor do I want to take him from his family.... I feel like as long as they are being provided for (he has one child) then what he does is up to him.... and the way he puts it (which i see is a reality) that in Europe (particularly in Amsterdam) it is common for a man to have a wife and a girlfriend.... neither of them getting confused with the other...

i'm just curious as to people's opinions on this..... how bad am i?? :X

 

What the fucks wrong with you?!!He's a Married Fucking Man!!!

Thats like a big sin ain't it?

 

couldnt of said it better than the above...

i think its sad that you cant get a man of your own, so you have to steal someone elses...
meh, you'll get whats coming to ya, when you get married, your hubby will fool around on ya...
I just dont know how you can not feel guilty about it and such, and you can respect a man like that...
And your theroy in it, so f'ing lame...."just as long as they are being provided for" nice theroy there, you'll go far in life with that one

 

hmm well maybe just a one or 2 time fling then its over, otherwise its gonna drive you nuts wondering what he would have done to do.

 

there's more to life than sex.
would you like it if your hubby cheated on you?
I'm sure not.

get your own man!!

 

anywhoo there shouldnt even be one or two fling, you are doing nothing but hurting other people...and degrading yourself to be know as the other woman..
Jesus girl, get some balls and be your own and dont fuck with someone whom is married...

 

Well... I can absolutely get my own man, and the one or two flings makes sense... and to be honest with most of you, i say "When in Rome (or Amsterdam ;-) do as the Romans do..."

and it isn't about "stealing" someone's man... i think i was pretty explicit in explaining that in the first post as being the opposite of what's happening....

The concept of a married man having a girlfriend or mistress isn't a new one, but even i don't seek to take as much time or money as either of these would... no money actually and very little time...

what i was kinda hoping for was someone with some experience with the subject that may even be able to give objective advice...

and by the way, how can any of you call yourselves "hippy" if free love isn't apart of your morals? ;-)

and one can't be blamed for a sin if they don't believe in the existence of them... but more the consequences and/or Karmic backlash of a chosen action...

 

Well my ex is currently in a relationship with a married guy....and sadly (for her) has fallen in love. There are a lot of highs and lows from what I can tell but overall I think she loves it. Personally I'd never be with an attached or married person.

 

HOMEWRECKER! My dad cheated on my mom and belive me it will hurt the kid, not to mention the wife.

 

You are in love, do not you?
If he loves his family should be able to controll himself and not, get you into trouble.
Love is beautiful but in same moment, very painfull.
It is up to you but, do not complain if after "he scores", he simply dump you.
Good luck anyway!

 

If i was interested in falling in love or having a future with someone, a married guy would probably be one of the worst places to look... more i see it as an opportunity for me to enjoy someone that isn't going to keep tabs on me all the time, wonder where i've been and who i was with... but also to take him from his role as provider, husband, father and bread-winner so that maybe he can just be the man that he is without the other attachments...

i wouldn't anticipate him EVER leaving his family (i would be completely against it, too) particularly because he is Afghani and therefore raised Muslim....

i don't really know why i asked, because i will probably go along with it anyways... but the input is appreciated ;-)

 

You seem to be a very level headed woman and if you choose to have an affair with a married or attached man, then that it your business. There are consequences to our actions and it may pose a problem if he gets caught and you're the other woman. Or he may fall hard for you due to the sex and leaves his wife or significant other for you. And if kids are involved then it gets real sticky, but by the same token, the sex could be the most enjoyable experience due to the danger of being caught. Just be careful and take each step with the upmost precaution.

ALI

 

My dad cheated on my mum in a place where it is common for men to have four wives and for expatriates to have a local wife and the two wives living together too or girlfriend living with the family and kids.
My dad is not the only one. Many of my friends' fathers did the same.

Point.
Even if it is common, it breaks up the family somehow. Maybe not physically but definately emotionally. I can never forgive my dad and it changed our family forever.

 

Some people think its a thrill or a challenge to be with a married person but in the long run it can end up very serious... I am sure your not meaning to have feelings for this man but that doesnt mean it wont happen... plus many many things can happen... I think its just to risky to be with someone you know they are married just for the sake of saying hey I did that!!! Right now your most likely thinking I am young I dont want to settled down with him so why not??? But they say the past always comes back to haunt you and 10 years down the road you may be married and someone doing this same thing with your husband...

 

People are people, and you get attracted to whoever they are, not that they are married. Married men know women better, they live with one and they learn the intimate ways of the feminine. They are confident with women and it shows. They are usually pretty good lovers. They learn a lot from their wives and you cannot deny that.


It is for you to decide as far as YOU are concerned, not for you to worry about his wife or children. That is his problem. Just as my wife and family is my problem when I see other girls.

Mark

 

I have no respect for married men who go chasing tail. If your lookin for someone who isn't going to keep tabs on you by a vibrator. Either way though that home is already wrecked cause for some reason he seems to think he needs to get beaver from somewhere other then his wifes and so whether he fucks you or not he will find someone else to step out on her with. So enjoy the good fuck for now and may it come back to you 3 times fold.

 

Um...yeah...you should stop. If an older man turns you on that's kosher, however...married man=big fucking red light.

 

if ud do that to me id kick the living daylights outha u.
cheap slut.i hope ur future man is gonna cheat on you
u are one fucked up selfish piece of shit.

 

I hope you get pregnant by this guy. That would be some funny shit.
Not only would his wife divorce him, but I doubt you would ever talk to this guy again as well.

 

hmm, its up to you, but dont you think hes being a greedy shit?

I mean he gets it all, his wife, his kids , his happy la de da family and his bit on the side. What do you get out of it, a cheap thrill a poor fuck and major guilt, obviously you ont totally agree with the situation or you wouldnt be trying to get others to justify it for you.

I dont think your a bad person, just a little foolish for caving in for this loser.