My ex who I dated with for 7 months and then broke up with cuz she wouldnt care how I felt about anything at the end of it. Then she moved off for about 2 months then I moved and I recently saw her since we live in the same city. And then she was texting me about how it still hurt and how she wanted me back and all this, and I suckered into it because I really do love her but I couldnt take what she did to me any longer. And weve been talking alot lately, then tonite, she calls me from her friends house and theyr both chillin there with some dudes and then she starts talking about how she needs to get laid and theyr all talkin about fuckin her n shit. So what I dont get is if she wants me back so goddamn bad then why would she do that? Why doesnt she even care how I feel when she CALLS me and that goes on?
sounds like she more cares about HER being hurt and HER being lonely - not that she's hurt YOU. you could try talking to her and being honest and setting up some boundries of how you're willing to be treated. however, it doesn't sound like she's in a space to even be able to understand past herself and what's good for her at the moment. it doesn't really sound like she's in a place to take care of your feelings - so you're going to have to take care of your feeling and look out for yourself. don't lend your heart to someone who will keep hurting you...
it sounds like she does care about what you think, in that she's trying damned hard to inspire some jealousy from you. It's pretty fucked up though.
she wants what i call 'moviestar romance' like yousee inthe movies ect. i was the same way is she still in high school? or like under 18?
Shes trying really hard to make you jealous and upset you. My ex did that but in a far less bad way, but still, i had nothing to do with it. Have some dignity and just ignore her, your totally gonna get hurt.
Don't drive yourself crazy with the why's. She does it and it doesn't matter why. Just move on. If she asks, just tell her to go play games with someone else. You will be happier for it.
Sounds like she's a bitch to me. I know what it feels like to be dumped and get hurt and then stupidly go back to the person that hurt you, trust me I know it sucks. And if they treat you right when you get back together that's one thing, but if they act like you don't mean anything and your feelings don't matter, then I'm sorry to say this but you shuold let her go. Tell her you don't deserve to be treated the way she is treating you so unless she starts to shape up, you can't be with her. It'll be hard, I know, because you love her. But you've got to think about yourself first.
