I don't know what 2 do! I'm confused! I need help, opinions & feed back would b greatly appreciated!! Anyways I've been talkin 2 this guy on n off 4 about a year, we were never 2gether we always just talked cuz we never had time! But now we always find the time! We talk everyday @ least 2 times on the phone everyday! And everyday we have something real 2 talk about I feel like I can talk 2 him anout whatever I want! Its great but, at first he seemed like he just wanted what they all want! But now things r sooooo different! He tells me he really likes me n i'm different n all that! Since we started talkin on a more serious level! & b4 we had done anything after over a year of him tryin'!!!! We just barely had sex for the first time the other day. He hasn't acted weird, mean, or anything of the sort since then, but of course I'm still paranoid! He seems 2 have changed a lot since I first met him but I know guys all 2 well & can't help but think that he's just running mad game on me! It would b great if for once he isn't full of shit like all the others! I really do like him n have been spending lots of time with him, but I don't want 2 risk being fucked over again especially by sum1 who i could love! EVEN THOUGH WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN 2GETHER N CAN SPEAK 2 EACH OTHER FREELY I'M STILL NOT SURE IF ITS REAL OR I'M JUST BEING PLAYED!!!
There's no way of telling, really. If he's been trying for a year, though, and now has finally suceeded, I'd watch how he is from now on, but seeing asthough he hasn't changed toward you since then, I'd hope that means he wasn't just after sex. I suggest taking your time with things and seeing how they continue to develop before giving your heart entirely. Good luck and hope it all works out
well..it sounds to me like at 1st maybe he wasafter sex, but seems like ya developeed a deep meanningful reltionship slowly after a year guys dont generaly waste a year talkin to u hoping just 1 day you'll have sex..unless he genuinly liked ya stop pannicking and just enjoy things and wait and see where they go expecting a certain outcome (like him leavin now that he got what he wanted) can make it a self fulfilling prophesy he seems like he treats ya good and is interested in you, not just sex, so id gofor it and see where ya end up good luck
