I like a little anal play my self while masterbating. i have asked my wife to do it while performing oral and she is afraid. how do i convince her to try it?
1)Get her drunk. 2)If that doesn't work: relax, let it remain an activity that is beyond her comfort zone but is a fine fantasy for your masturbation sessions. (Masturbation is more fun when you fanasize about imaginary activities. Or at least that's what I've found.)
You have to get her interested in doing it to you. Does she enjoy anal herself. That's a big step right there. If she knew how good it felt, she wouldn't be afraid. If she is afraid, tell her that you can show her what you like to do. There is nothing wrong with doing it. There is plenty of legitimate information regarding anal/prostate stimulation for men and how good it feels for them. Hangups are the major drawback. If you can get her past that, you're in, or should I say"she's in".
If it's the 'gross' factor, have her wear a latex glove. If it's fear of hurting you, show her yourself, and let her know you're not made of gossamer. But if it's a hangup of hers, give it time, and she'll either come around, or it will just be a 'no' thing for her. Just leave it be.
