I don't think the feeling in itself is wrong, however be really careful what you do with it. Where is she at? Does she show any interest in you in that way? Even if she does, could having sex with you have bad repercussions for her later [probably yes - guilt, shame, emotional problems]. What if she gets pregnant? Remember there is a difference between what you feel and what you decide to do about it. The latter should be chosen with consideration and respect for yourself and others involved. Don't just think with your dick
while taboo to admit to or discuss, it's actually a very common, average desire. so no, there's nothing actually abnormal or unhealthy or inherently wrong about the attraction itself. however, following through with it is a highly risky business as i'm sure you know. the possibility for trouble is high whether or not she shares your feelings... if she doesn't and you express yours, she could blab and the social taboo would bite your bum. if she feel the same but isn't mature enough to make the decision to act on it with a clear head, she (and you) could end up emotionally damaged by it and it could become open knowledge the two of you did so. even if you both are truly okay with it and don't tell anyone, getting caught (walked in on, pregnancy despite precautions that must be explained, etc) is a very real possibility. and more bad scenarios. so as with any serious decision it comes down to risk vs. benefits. personally, with still being teens and being so closely related (and all the social interaction that involves with family time and whatnot), i'd say that the risk is too great compared to the benefits. if it were 15 years down the road, both of you living outside the parent's home (or better, hometown), solid bc measures taken so no biological accidents were an issue, then i'd maybe weigh it otherwise. but the situation now? no. bad idea all around, the risk of seirous negative consequences is too high.
Yeah, consider all of the above, but answer some questions How old is she? Has she made any indication she wants to? Are ou both ready for the above stated issues? My sister and I played for several years with no ill effects. People make it out like interfamilial sex is always bad. That's not true even most of the time. And its a lot more common than most people think.
Maybe its common in the U.S. but in other countries we like to have sex with people outside of our immediate family...
Shes 21 and at college, next year ill be out of the house and at college as well. I realize how...awkward, shall i say, it would be if i were to flat out ask her and she didnt feel the same way. I dont know, maybe thats the only way to find out though, but i just dont have the balls to do something like that.
Its not the only way. Spend some time with her. Just go in her room and ask what shes up to and stuff, then maybe start a conversation about sex, and over the convo it should be obvious if she likes you that way.
Haha, before I even checked to see, I knew the reply before this one would be from a girl. Girls tend to overanalyze the situation. Well, I am both a chick AND a Virgo (Virgos like to pay attention to detail), and let me just tell you straight up...... NO! ...And thank you for your time
Really...think about it from all sides..and for a long time...dont let your hormones do the thinking for you !!
absolutely right erzebet think dide..shes your sis for life ya express this to her you'll really screw up do u wanna prpbly ruine your relationship with her for life?
I think doing it would be a really bad decisions. There are alot of consequences that could come from this.
