I've found out about quite a strange trend here. Many girls are joining so-called pro-ana clubs. So far, nothing new, we all knew this was a trend. But now some guys are making a sport of trying to date anorectic girls and to have sex with them. They think it's a kick, while of course these girls are seriously ill. A few years ago, I had a girlfriend that showed dangerous pre-anorectic symptoms, but I really loved her (and luckily she recovered). I'm feeling a bit uncomfortable with the idea that some men are looking for these girls just because they think it's cool to have sex with a dangerously skinny girl. What do you think? Should everything be permitted? Personally I think it's a bit perverse.
its more then sick not that they dont desserve love.. but anyone whos specificaly afgter that like u said its a sport not love i've dated 1 girl myself and ..lost her...2 weeks later to suicide i cant believe anyone would do this kinda sick shit..like preying on the unhealthy i came here ready to bitch ya out thinkin you were pro copulating with a pro-ana girl i'm glad it gave u a queesy feeling too
Soaringeagle, I am sorry that happened to you! Good God. That sounds really painful. I would like to state for the record, one man's opinion: skinny is not sexy. I can fall for a skinny girl or find her sexy for her personality, but the ideal body type for me has some fat on it. Maybe 12-15 pounds more than she would like. Breasts and ass. Soooo hot. Good, good, good. Eat a piece of chocolate cake. Is there an example in a movie star... i'm thinking... I don't know. Someone with a body. Old time movie stars had really, really sexy bodies. Black and white movies, but sexy, sexy bodies. This pro-ana thing might be interesting to me because i like freaky wierd stuff, but as Soaringeagle implies, I don't think I would wanna do it because I would feel like I was contributing to something harmful and unhealthy. How sexy is a skeleton? That's great for anatomy class. For snuggling, give me a female with some curves.
Doesn't everyone get to have a suicidal partner once in their life? Mine was crafty-craxy, unbeknownst to me; I only found out about her mental condition from a friend who had visited her during hospitalization - after I broke up with her. I beat myself up over that one for months. What I'm saying is, it's easy to feel sympathy for a down (thin, troubled, distant) partner without knowing the depth of the sickness. Those that do know, yet find it 'sport,' should be used for target practice!
No anorexics, please. Sophia Loren was a fair bit heavier than most actresses today, but I know who I would want to be with, in a heartbeat. In other words, not this size - Calista Flockhart: THIS Is what I'm talking about - :X Sophia Loren: (Note that the corset gave her the artificially small waist)
