What is too much? I sometimes cum quick during sex and last week I masturbated 7 times in a 24 hour period.
It's not true. The more you masturbate, the healthier you are. Hence the expression "use it or lose it".
Not true at all. For guys, it can be a conditioned response, if you teach yourself to cum quick, you do, especially if your in a warm, tight hole. But if you train yourself to take your time, it can actually make you last longer. I think girls are a bit different. If the stimulation isn't there, we'll never cum!
For girls to cum then, do you girls need G-Spot stimulation and/or Clit Stimulation to cum? Or is there more needed?
You have to be in the mood to cum. Or at least I do. All the clit rubbing in the world won't do anything for me if I'm not wanting to orgasm, not in the mood to.
We agree. If one is truly honest with themselves, they would admit that masturbation is better than sex. But we've found that masturbation with someone you love is better than masturbating solo. Really. We feel that masturbating with each other is unbelievably kinky and decadent, and a completely satisfying and legitimate form of lovemaking. We have taken masturbation, the humblest of biological acts, and elevated it to an art form.
Some girls do need clitoral stimulation, but for me I gotta want to be with the person or people. I have to also agree with hotcaliforniacouple masturbation with you lover is the best form of sex.
They are two different, but worthy, realms populated by two different kind of citizens. The first, masturbatory by name, is the land of the self and fantasy. Oh the joys involved - things dreamed of, yet never to be fully attained. But that citizen remains with me 'til death. Then the realm of shared joy, shared closeness, shared expression. Thoughts engendered to accompany another. That person lives in me also and leaps for joy at another's touch. No conflict, no comparison, no rivalry nor jealousy. Just joy in two noble and happy worlds of the self and togetherness. Certainly neither influences the other that much, nor should the full expression of either be denied for the 'protection' of the other. Morrison, you heard wrong, believe us!! Herd sheep.
This CAN be true, but other times, sex with another person can be better. On the one side its the "Nobody can do me like I can do me" argument, and on the other side its "I hate to be alone. Wish I had someone, like in my fantasy".
Not true Morrison. A guy I was with insisted on jerking off in my panties before sex so he could last longer. I licked the cum all off. Quite a nice appetiser.
