so what does it mean when a guy tells you that he has feelings for you, but doesn't want to ruin it in a relationship?
I'd say it's a sign of the age-old male hesitating at the threshold of "committment." There are better bets around. Try one and find out for yourself. To feel hesitation is bad enough, to state it openly souds like an attempt at 'friends with benefits!' You seem to want better treatmant. Go find it!
My guess would be that he wants to keep any options open in the future if he gets a chance to sleep with you but doesn't want a relationship with you.
srry bumble u know im bad with names..lol well i look at it like this preston was there withyou when you were in real sadness after the death of your love.. you got really close in a deeply emotional situation youve both felt feelings beyond freindship perhaps but the depth of the freindship you decveloped through those hard times made the freindship ... that caring and sharing.. more important then the romantic feelings he might have wich are more likely just the result of that closeness i dont think hesseeking a freinds with benifits thing but more like trying to presserve a freindship by trying toprevent feelings that maybe false emotions based on the situation? know what imean?
Good luck Baby...even if he only wants to be friends....a good ..true friend is worth more than a short term lover
