poll on girls attitude on bisexual guys

Girls, would you see/date a guy who tells you he is bisexual?

 

see the bisexual thing doesnt matter at all. My boy is bi. So long as hes monogamous it doesnt matter at all.

 

I find it bizarre that so many people seem to associate being bisexual with an inability to be monogamous. I'm bi, I love being monogamous. Being willing to date someone from either sex has no impact on ones ability to be monogamous (or polyamorous)

 

yeah thats the thing that shits me, as soon as you say bisexual people automatically think you'll fuck anything that moves and cant maintain a relationship...

I think Jerry Springer has a lot to answer for

 

It doesnt matter ...as long as he loves me. Im Bi also

 

It depends.

If he has a thing for anal sex, regardless of whether his partner is male or female, no, I would not date him. That would be my big stereotype about bisexual guys (that they're probably into anal play of at least some sort). Yes, I realize plenty of straight guys are into that as well -- I say this because of my irritation with straight guys I've dated who really really wanted to enter my exit-only orifice. And, frankly, if you can't go the rest of your life without anal play of any sort, don't waste my time.

But, if he will be perfectly happy never going near my asshole, and having to take care of any ass-masturbation he wants on his own, well, then I would be willing to date him.

While you tend to get a different impression if you go into the love & sex forum here, my impression from other interactions is that there are plenty of other women who would question dating a bisexual male for the same reason.

 

i've always preferred my men to be dominant alpha types. that's a particular preference for relationships. now, if i see my man being submissive, sexually, to a nother man, i would probably stop being attracted to my man and being attractive to the dominant man. i know this because i've experienced it, and while i felt very guilty for losing my attraction to my man, i simply couldn't help it. the sexuality wasn't the issue at all, since i'm turned on by open and fearless physical love. however, i cannot personally be in a relationship with a man i see to be less than an alpha male. i don't know why, but this is me and that's that. but bisexuality is obviously not a problem for me.

 

Nope.

 

Any reason why?

 

I am married, so I will answer this from my pre-married opinion. If a man was truly bisexual it is unlikely that I would date him. By truly bi I mean that he needs both men and women to be sexually satisfied (my opinion and I realize others define it differently so please don't rant on me over it). If a man was exploring his sexuality and it had involved other men I would have to seriously think about it. Infidelity is not an option with me.

I have been with women, but do not consider myself "bi" because I have not been with a woman in years and do not feel sexually attracted to them anymore. So, my response is also from personal experience. I did not think it fair to be in a serious relationship when I wasn't sure what I wanted in a partner.

 

thanxs for voting and the frank replies.
So far it seems to me that for a guy being bisexual it is sort of a liability more than an asset which is something I had suspected.

 

I don't think it really matters. I mean I'm bi and my guy is fine with that, and it would be the same if the shoe was on the other foot.

 

17 people voted for it not being negative. so how's it a detriment?

 

of course i would date a guy who is bisexual

 

Probably a lot more likely to get AIDS.

 

I have selected on my profile that I am bi. I'm not a true middle of the road bisexual though. While I have done sexaul things with another male, and I would like to in the future, I do not desire to be romantic with a male. My bisexual urges are hedonistic for the most part. On the other hand, I deeply desire romance, intimacy, and sex with a woman. I need those things with a woman.

I'm single at this time, and would really like to enter into a long term relationship with a bi woman that prefers men. My ideal relationship would involve some threesomes and foursomes from time to time, but I'd prefer most of the male partners to be heterosexual. I'd only like to have a few more sexual experiences with a male in my lifetime. I would like my partner to be there with me. That's just my take on it. I do not like having sex with guys often at all due to the increased risk of std's. That is why I don't mess with guys even though I'm currently single.

So, where are the bi women that are turned on by bi guys?

 

my girlfriend is totally into this...

 

I tend to prefer bisexual men -- which I define as men who find people of either sex to be attractive, even if they don't have homosexual sex. Bi guys tend to be a lot more relaxed, a lot less arrogant, and a lot more tender ... but of course I know that doesn't hold true for EVERYone.

(I consider myself bi because I think other women are beautiful, but having physical encounters with them just doesn't turn me on. In my opinion, sexuality has less to do with what you who you would screw, and more to do with who you find attractive.)

 

I think if that meant to be natural, every human would have a Penis and a Vagina by birth. Or two ass holes, one for female entry, and one for male entry. That is bullshit.