your relationship ends with someone, by being dumped or doing the dumping, and your all happy and shit. but then you realize that you miss them like hell.
I think it depends on how they were as well as how they end. I myself have always ended relationships on good terms and have always felt grief for the end but also excited for my new found singleness and for the freedom that has allowed me and the chance to pursue someone else ~ It's nice to be able to look around and flirt again or just focus on yourself.
Okay, this is what I call a "gimme"... an easy answer. Humans are creatures of habit. You always miss what you're used to, good or bad. When it's not there, you feel it. The reason is irrelevant. That's why women will return to an abusive relationship. Fortunately, it lessens with time. If it didn't, 98% of the human race would be perpetual wrecks.
True, they have actually shown that your brain creates an attachment chemical. This chemical is increased the longer you are with someone. When you are seperated it can truely be just like a drug withdrawl.
yeah. the first time we broke up, i was really happy until we started school again, then i started to miss you. and now i've been missing you since the very day we broke up. i'm sorry that i'm such a dumbass.
HAHA, the anwser is: Calamari can remember something for 7 seconds. Then it forgets. Basically: same thing here. It's over, let's move on. And I'm not saying that cause i was never in love. I'm just like that.
You allow our self to miss them and greive, but knowing you will get over that feeling, too, with time. Just focus on other things as best you can, that'll help, imho.
either way it must be hard. missing someone is a pretty sad feeling untill you find out you learned from it or made it work out. if your still friends after you shouldnt really miss them anymore cuz there right there. but if you mean a love level of missing, your own your own with that one.
I learned that being nice gets you nowhere. Being nice just gets you walked all over. So now i try not to take other peoples feelings into consideraton and speak what i think and not care if i upset them. Fuck i did nothing wrong, yet still she leaves me for some Wayne Rooney gone wrong look-a-like. I need to learn a few pages from the book of "Ruthless".
well i noticed the date from when this was posted....and its like a year old or sumthin...u should be over it and moved on by now...ur young and theres more... yea know???!!! no reason to cry over it if u made the mistake and no reason to worry bout them if they left you....cause they dont no wat they could be missin....
i didint mean it in a mean way...its kinda relaxing and it doesnt let you focus on the thing you're doing it for... HOT CHOCOLATE IS THE BEST EVER!!!!
i have been through some of this though...nothing works better than time. the "healing" process would maybe go faster if you didnt see them for a while., but who eliminates a person from there life completely? i could never do that...unless they moved
This happened to me about 6 months ago. It was horrible because i was split, part of me didn't like her and didn't want to like her. The other part missed her and wanted me to take another shot at it. It gradually went away, but it was a huge pain.
