A question for all you mama's out there.

I had a baby about 5 weeks ago, and about a week ago my boyfriend and I started having sex again. My question is for all the mum's out there... Was sex better or worse for you after you had your babies, cause for some reason, our sex has been totally intensified. I mean, it is so much better I can' t even believe it. I was really afraid it was going to be really bad for me, or really bad for him if you konw what I mean.... Anyways, just curious.

 

I couldn't have sex five weeks after I had him... I had to wait like three months... It's kind of different... you don't always get as much lube as you used to or whatever. The hardest part is just finding time to do it.

 

i had mine in jan . . . . .congrats!! i love being a mom. ya anyway, i didnt have sex for 2-3 months after, and even then it hurt real bad (atfirst anyway). i had asked my doc about the feeling and all if if things were gonna go back to normal. he said the pain was normal, just be careful. nothing naughty for a lil while.(its hard yes, but ya gotta deal) and things DO go back to normal.
i had asked my boyfriend about the feeling for him, and he told me that i was actually tighter. i thing i went back to normal, and was tight beacuse i had to wait for ever to feel comterble enough to have sex. going back to sex at first was real painful for me, and i felt soooo bad for my man, but things are better than ever now!!!!!! heheheh. im getting pretty "tired" now

 

time . . . . . you are right ha ha
i never have time to have enough sex. comes with the territory.
and if your breastfeeding (ihope you are) youll fing that having some of that ky warming liquid is heaven sent. belive me
when you breatfeed it takes your (lube i guess) away

 

That's so funny. I have a bottle of that stuff on my bedside table. And ya, the time thing kinda takes all the romance outta it, eh? Now it's like "Alright, baby's asleep! Move it or loose it!" But whatever... it's totally worth it.

 

I had to wait quite a while, too (c-section). But, I think it is intensified b/c the whole time after baby, you are told you CANT for x number of weeks. And, being told you can't makes you want it more!

 

What is KY warming liquid? I guess I'm out of touch with stuff but from the name it sounds like a lube generates a mild chemical "heat" when its used.

If that isn't what this stuff is then someone should invent what I just described. You don't gotta be a gynecologist to know now nice that would feel for a girl.

Kelticman

 

A friend was having a baby a few years ago and she said that her doctor told her that after having her baby, she'd tighten up to feel just like a virgin again...as for everything else you're asking, I have no idea.

 

It works on the guy too