Just thinking out loud

Discussion in 'All in the Family' started by cutelildeadbear, Aug 31, 2006.

  1. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    I miss my sister. We moved 400 miles away and I'm feeling really really homesick right now. I wish my sister were here. She is and always has been my best friend.

    I'm sorry for being so depressing.
     
  2. Maggie Sugar

    Maggie Sugar Senior Member

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    I'm sorry you two are apart.


    HUGS,

    Maggie
     
  3. denimstar

    denimstar edge of darkness

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    That was the way I was raised. My sibs were/are my best friends even though there are many yrs age difference between some of us.
    I'm in the same boat I miss mine also.
     
  4. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    Thanks guys. I am trying to convince my sister to move down here but I know she has to live her own life. Hopefully we are together when we both settle down and start having a family though, because I don't know what I would do without her.

    so sad, going to cry now.
     
  5. Calisto_Flyshigh

    Calisto_Flyshigh Member

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    :( My sister recently moved to Georgia for college, and it's very strange, since she and her fiance are two of my closest friends-- (my boyfriend lives in Florida)-- it's difficult to have the people you love live so far away.. I suggest saving your pennies to see them every now and then, the investment is worthwhile.
     
  6. DeathRowDisco

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    My siblings all live in Florida, Alberta and New York... except for my youngest sister, who lives in the same town as I do, with my mother. It's hard being away, but a phone call once a week (if you can't afford long distance, buy calling cards when you can) really REALLY helps with being so far away. At least you can kinda keep track of what's going on with each-other that way.
     
  7. Jenny_420

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    Maybe your parentals will let you go stay with her when you get the chance and there is nothing going on.. I don't know what it would be like if my sister moved. we my fight but really we are best friends too!
     
  8. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    Thanks everyone for the support. The thing that I have recently realized is that we never tell each other we love each other. Like when I hang up from my mom or dad (whom I talk to far less frequently than my sister and with whom I have issues) I say I love you. But I talk to Kimmy every other day (we have the same cell phone company so it is free to talk). But when we hang up, it is just like before I moved. As if we are going to see each other the next day or something. I just don't know how to start to say I love you. We have never had to say it. We both definitely know is as we are absolutely best friends. It just kinda makes me sad to talk to her now. I mean now I have a dog that she hasn't met. What happens when we have kids and she is 8 hours away. What if I can't convince her to move here? Honestly, I don't think I want to live here without her. Yet, we started to make a life here. It is quite confusing and upsetting. I miss just having dinner with her and going dancing and stuff.

    I am going to see her on Halloween and hopefully she will be down here for Thanksgiving, but it is so different. We have just always been so close, that now I just really miss her. Talking to her is nice, but it just isn't the same.
     
  9. torz

    torz Member

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    i know its hard to say i love you, i have never told my sisters or bro that i love them but i show it in different way & that can be more powerful & hold more meaning than words can. why dont you write her a letter or email (personally i perfer snail mail as a letter in the post can be so unexpected & put a smile on your face) & tell her how you feel & that you love & miss her. also buy a pair of webcams so you can chat & see each other over the net, thats the next best thing to actually seeing someone in person.
     
  10. cerridwen

    cerridwen in stitches

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    I know what you mean.

    My parents moved to France a few months ago, it's so weird having them so far away. They're not around for birthdays, it was weird not having Thanksgiving with them.
     

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