i have absolutely no fecking clue what to do with my life

I don't want to get a "real" job just yet because i don't know what i want. i had it in my mind that i wanted to go to Peru to teach english but really i don't WANT to go there as much as i feel like i have to do SOMEthing interesting and soon. my friends are advising me on "real" jobs and where to look for them and pressuring me to get with it. what did you older people do after college, or high school or whatever? what do you younger people plan to do? is this feeling that i'm having, this intense anxiety, normal? cheers

 

You should get a "real" job while you contemplate your long-term goals. Everything I have tried has failed, but I am still getting by with "real" jobs, as much as I hate working. In the end, you have to suck it up and do what needs to be done.

 

Yes, okay, getting a job, it helps... it will keep u healthy. Try getting into a skill that u like doing, and going to school for it. You like to build? Get a liscence for carpendry, or maybe you like writing and are into the arts, attend a film school or something. There is so much you can do with your life, even if you hate working, a "real" job, its not gonna be forever, dont let it. If you want a change, only you can bring it on, just do it in a positive way.

 

I'm getting old, & I still haven't made a solid decision! *laughs*