I'm not gay, but I have a question

Ok to start this out, I'm not sterotyping...I don't think. But I have a question about a relationship, and I usually confide in my gay friends/family but for some reason I can't get ahold of them...they are the best listeners and have the best advice about relationships. Anyway I've been with this girl for the last 5-6 years (I can't really remember..lol) anyway we've been living together for two. I really love her and I really would love to marry her...I just don't know how she feels....if she's ready for that next step. Should I ask anyway? or wait until I know for sure....just wondering.

Peace, love, and keep truckin',
Al

 

You're only 19, whats the rush, Que cera cera, right? Just stick with her and leave the M word for when you want to have babies.

 

ya been together 5 years dude..ya already are married

 

See thats the thing, I just started student teaching (started college jr year so got finished early) and already signed a contract to teach at this school. I can support her, I've got control of the house payment, bills ect. and I'd love to have a kid...lol...(hope it's a boy can't wait to coach football). What can I say I'm a family man....but yeah I guess your right when I think about it..no rush. lol...guess once I think about it that makes a little more sense now...hmm...thanks. I guess waiting never crossed my mind...dont know why thanks...lol.

 

lol... sometimes it does feel like it.

 

well technicaly i guess a common law marriage is what 7 years? yea maybe depends where ya live..but..
ya might as well just call it what it is if thats what u feel...if..if shes confortable with it being that, but odviosly shes been with ya 5 years she must wanna be with ya...

 

Good luck in whatever you choose to do, afterall, if you're happy now then you've probably got sound reasons for wanting to marry her.