Hey, Soo...I'm a Sagittarius Female, and naturaly I get along the best with Geminis(or unnatural?). BUT, when ever I'm attracted to a guy he's most likely a Scorpio. So it goes like this, I can't shake off my attraction too Gemini's or my sexual animal monkey sex attraction to Scorpio. Which is not good because Scorpios confuse the hell out of me, and Geminis drive me up the wall with their damn manly pms. I can't help it though, I love my Scorpios & Geminis. As for the Females, I'm always attracted to the Leo girls. They're so full of life & laughter, you just wanna squeeze them and tell them how great they are. But the problem is, they're all heartless bitches. But I love them. Aries go crazy over me, they're hot but they never agree with me. Anywho, my question is how do you get a Scorpio to value you as an actual being? You know, get on their really really good side, where they actually care? How do you get a Gemini too admit they care about you? Without them getting all pissy about feelings? Yeah, please help me...
My friend is a Sag married to a scorpio guy. It can work! For gemini guys, this is my advice, take it or leave it: As a Sag, you probably are interesting and love to travel, education, hobbies, friendships, social gatherings, sports, etc. There are a lot of common interests to talk hours about. You don't want the gemini to feel like the conversation is getting to deep though. These are airy people and like to keep their feelings to themselves. Talk about interests for a while and then try to get into their feelings when the time is right.
I'm pretty sure it was Phillip Sedgwick who did the math, and found that statistically, you are most likely to marry someone who's sun is either in the same sign, or the two signs hugging it. for a sag, that would be a scorpio or a sag or a capricorn. I've personally found this to be typical, when you ask someone about there "most serious relationships." That said, it seems like you are more tickled by the scorpios, but can't get on their good side? One thing, is that scorpios are usually protected, wary of inertia, and can be hypnotized in their beliefs. You have to drop the bullshit, and approach scorpio in a way that is natural or "real" on a soul level. It may not be possible to do this in a public environment, like a party. For a sag woman, he'll love the carefree appeal, and if you can drop the "overdone," looks, or responses and adopt a more "rustic" asthetic, you might just win the gy over. hee