Mexican hottie....appreciate some tips!

Hello all! This is my first post! Glad to be here.

I am a 'white' male, almost 30 years old, I will soon be with a beautiful mexican girl a few years younger then me, she has had experience with a few guys in her life, (and I with a few girls)...we are "close" friends and things are becoming to the point phyiscally where sex seems inevitable....ok now you know a little bit about our level of experience...

I don't wish to generalize anyone because of their race, but i've never been with a latino girl before....I'm wondering if anyone can give advice on what I should expect with a mexican girl, is there statistically a cultural sexual technique preference (keeping it mind, it may not apply to her...) that I should be aware of....what to avoid....what will drive her crazy...obviously it's an individual thing too and I'll just have to learn it with time, but I want the first experience to be incredible...

I plan on giving her a full body massage, front and back and then running my tongue over every area to get started into something more (I love cunninglus!!)...I'm very, very patient when it comes to sex overall.....anyone else want to share some good tips? Thanks a lot in advance.

note: I really just want to be the perfect lover for her. We click 100% emotionally and mentally....now I wish to physically as well.....

 

Ive had many...and Ive found that ladies are ladies...it makes no difference what thier race is....other than that..if shes a devout catholic...you might not try to push the oral sex issue.

 

Actually she IS Catholic....but we have flirted about me going down on her....she has said even: "I will love every second".....so that seems very likely, but nothing about her going down on me...do you believe this religious stigma to be concerning blowjobs only, or is it usually oral sex period? Just curious. Either way, I aim to be completely unselfish with her, I'm just wanting to ask some questions now before things get really hot!!

BTW, thanks for the answer!

 

I think its more on her side..oral sex is a sin, therefore , if she blew you..it would be committing a sin.....no big deal.

 

I'll just have to teach her that just isn't the case.

I'm in no rush though....

 

Well, I hate to burst your little bubble, but the Catholic Church doesn't have anything to say about oral sex, one way or the other. The only thing they're really against when it comes to male-female sex is artificial birth control. The girls I've known that liked oral sex the most, on the giving and receiving end, were Hispanic girls or Catholic ones or both.

 

It must have changed then....

 

she cant be to much of a catholic ,,an her hispanic heritage must be VERY liberal..

or she wouldnt be fixin to fuck a Caucasian american out of wedlock..

so id say treat her like any other american bitch..

 

Being Mexican-American myself,I have been with only two Mexican girls in my lifetime. And there's a reason for that. Like Ezre mentioned (and I didn't know it was a Catholic thing) but neither one of them would allow me to go down on them nor would either one go down on me. Both had the response that they were taught to believe it was dirty,unfit to have a mouth down there. And both were just plain lame in the sack. Again,I wouldn't generalize when it comes to my own race but it just seemed too uncanny when any other girls I've been with (all white girls) never had a problem with oral-receiving or giving. It's strange that one would come here to find out how to please a particular race of female but if it helps you score points in bed knowing beforehand,then by all means.....

 

She's a good friend actually...and ya she's pretty liberally minded....but I will never treat her like a "dumb bitch" because she isn't and this isn't all "for me". Some people enjoy sex for the sake of the other person involved and I will love trying to learn to bring her to the next level sexually. Amazing concept, even laughable to some, but true nonetheless man.

 

good fortune..

you must be a scorpio??

love n light

 

It's not 'strange' at all, I think when one delves into something new and exciting in an environment he isn't familiar with, he should gather as much information as he can to better provide himself and the girl he will be with the best experience possible. If I can get the opinion of some people that have been with several latino girls for instance, then my understanding of some of the cultural norms and taboo's is increased, and knowledge is always prefered over ignorance... even if something specifically doesn't apply to her as an individual...

As far as the oral thing goes...me going "down on her" is a sure thing, in chatting with her, I got her very hot in just discussing me doing this online and she responded "I will enjoy every second" and "sounds amazing, I can't wait"....so GIVING this to her won't be a problem, and if me receiving it IS a problem...so be it....I simply haven't made her comfortable enough....(maybe I never will, who knows)

You have to be A.) a dirty little slut, or B.) very comfortable with someone.... to put your mouth on their "private" places....that's just my opinion and I only have my own experiences to verify it of course.

 

Naaa, Virgo....heart on my sleeve romantic type....sigh

 

I do appreciate all of your responses BTW, thank you very much. I'm interested in hearing some more experiences...with some of you that have been with latina girls in particular....if you up for a little story time....lol

 

The Latina (Mexican) girl I was with a few years back-I was the first guy to have ever licked her clit, and she had absolutely no objection to me doing it. She was extremely good at giving head, and was the 1st girl I've ever been with that swallowed when I came.

She said that she preferred to stay away from Latino guys because they didn't really respect or care about their women (this is her talking, not me, and she'd had her share of experience). She had no sexual hangups, and in fact, in general, was hornier than me! I kinda regret the fact that we broke up-she was a real sweet girl in a lot of ways-wish we could have worked things out....

BTW, regarding the whole business of Mexicans being 'Catholic'-although Mexico is over 90% nominally Catholic, most Mexicans are not particularly religious-in fact Mexicans in general start losing their virginity and having babies at a pretty early age. I can almost guarantee you that hangups that some have about oral sex are not religious in origin and are probably not widespread anyway, at least that's my impression-that's actually the 1st time I've heard of this. Of course, everybody's experiences are different......

 

Ha Ha, oral sex a sin. Ha Ha Ha, I just picture the bible being written "YOU WILL GO TO HELL IF YOU GIVE THAT GUY A BLOWIE". I'll shut up now.

 

No no, it's more like, "Thou shalt not blow cock, or lick mandas"

Also "Thou shalt not fill mexicana catholic girl with guacamole! aayyyyeee!!!!!"

 

Just because her shave manda latino, no means to her bodily desires unless her mandas clit in different place then white womans, no?

 

spicy taco girl have rice and beans on same plate as white girl, so all you can eat is good, even for mexicana right?

 

And some latino have better all you can eat deals then other, yes? Taco Taco, shung shung, fooey macaroni.