How to flirt?

So tonight I sort of went out on my first date-ish type of thing, though it wasn't really that. I don't even know. But no matter what you call the situation, I was hanging out downtown with a guy and his best friend (a girl). Anyway, this guy is unbelievably cute, and I really wanted to flirt with him. But I realized that I DON'T KNOW HOW!!!

So, any flirting tips? Seriously, just anything would help.

 

Can’t help you there, I have the same problem. Can you get flirting lessons somewhere? Lol

 

Ive always found that a lot of eye contact and smiles help....some people see those things as flirting....and get the person to talk about themselves, and act like you are REALLY inhterested in whatever they are saying...even if your not !!!!

 

When I saw my tutor on the train. There were smiles and a lot of eye contact. I barely looked away when I was talking to her and neither did she.

 

I don't know it seems alot easier to flirt with other guys than girls just a semi long stare and a smile sometimes works or even outright saying "hey you're kind of cute." but I'd usually restrain from doing that until you are sure the guy is gay because then you might feel like an ass because you made someone feel uncomfortable

 

Eye contact and smiling are key. However, I'd also encourage you to look away once in a while and then look back. Really prolonged eye contact can be too intense for lots of people and it often goes beyond flirting into heavy duty cruising territory.

 

Thanks everyone. I saw him again tonight and kind of blew it on the flirting, but I guess we're still kind of getting to know each other better. It's pretty obvious to me that we're both interested in each other... next time I might be daring enough to grab for his hand, but I'm not sure. We'll see.

 

Are you sure​

he is gay?​

Because I don't​

think grabbing a​

heterosexual's​

hand is too​

good. When I​

am interested​

in someone,​

I notice that​

I tend to snort​

when I laugh.​

I usually only​

snort when a​

joke is effing​

hilarious.​

Advice-wise:​

Be friendly.​

Be polite.​

Be yourself.​

It may not​

be flirting 101,​

but it may​

make a world​

of difference.​

Good luck, mon ami.​

 

Oh yes, he's definitely gay.

 

Good luck baby.....you know I wish you all the happiness in the world !!!

 

Don't grab his hand, grab his balls.

Let him know exacally where you're at. And if he doesn't resist, then finger his hole. go from there.

 

great advice you could go the whole hog do it in public and get done for sexual assault
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Hahaha....I just got a visual of Njnudedude grabbing a guy like that....!!!

 

thats great news amp. I hope it all goes well for you and also wish you happiness.

 

Let's see... He's​

gay and you're into​

him, ay? I have​

the same problem​

with a sexy-ass​

English kid. 'Cept​

THAT ONE has an​

effing boyfriend!​

Well, back to you.​

Smile a lot (unless​

your teeth are icky).​

Laugh at his lame-​

ass jokes. Agree​

with him. Whether​

gay or straight, there​

is nothing guys​

like more (well, except​

for sex) than having​

someone agree with​

their dumbass ideas.​

Do not agree, however,​

if his dumbass idea​

is to set himself on​

fire. Be close, but not​

too close - and NOT​

too obvious.​

Personally, I hate​

it when people want​

to sit by me SO bad​

and they are almost​

on TOP of me.​

Be entertaining, but​

not annoying. Like​

in drama: know when​

to stop!​

​

I wishes you​

the luckiest best.​

 

Thanks you guys. Things are going pretty well with him. Nothing has really happened yet, but we're getting there.

Just a little background info: He's a freshman in college, and I'm a junior in high school. But he's only 11 months older than me, which is kind of weird. But anyway, we've been seeing each other whenever possible, and it's pretty obvious that we like each other. He visited me at work last night, and we had lunch together today (I have an open campus policy, and my high school is in downtown Portland, so I can basically walk anywhere for lunch; it's great). And we're planning on going out for sushi on Saturday night. So basically it's only a matter of time, and being alone, I guess. And I think Saturday night will be the perfect opportunity for something to happen.

 

Good luck!

 

flirting isn't really something i can explain...

it will come natural.

 

Sounds good. I might suggest that you don't wear socks and maybe hint that he shouldn't wear any underwear too. It could be a big flirt and might get things rolling.

It has worked for me.

 

Uhhhh I feel like that would be a little too straight-forward. I'm not just trying to get into his pants. I actually like the guy.