Women..admit that your fingers are far better than sex

Most women won't admit that their fingers give them far greater pleasure compared to penis/pussy penetration. Their clits, g-spots..and every other errogenous zone on their bodies are so "touch specific"..."time specific" that even the most sensual/sexual/romantic guy has a serious challenge on his hands. Also, when women finger themselves...they can do it with anonymity...which allowes them an opportunity to not be so self-conscious with their own bodies while alone and "fiddling".

 

Nope, my fingers aren't better than sex, in my opinion. It's not at all teh same sensation. Hell, I'd rather have his fingers in my than my own. I just don't penetrate myself during masturbation, I only really find penetration pleasureable when it's done by my partner.

I'm sure that's not how it is for plenty of women, but for me, almost all of my erogenous zones have to be touched by someone else to be active, not by me.

 

No, I'd much rather have my husband's penis or fingers over my own fingers any day. Much more enjoyable in my opinion.

 

yepp!! i reach much higher/more intense orgasm with my fingers, almost everytime. but sure i can miss the feeling of being filled up and so, sure it's nice to get fucked once in a while, but it's like eating some nice food; my "own" orgasms take on another planet

 

Hahaha.........sorry, going solo doesnt do it for me

 

i much prefer sex or somebody else's fingers than my own, but sometimes i would rather have my vibrator/dildo. i never prefer my own fingers over anything else though.

 

Haha. Owned!

 

Although i can give myself a wicked orgasm, nothing compares to the two sweaty bodies rooling around thing. Even if I don't get off, having sex with a foxy dude that makes me squeal is far better than anything my hands can do.

 

in my opinion, i would rather sleep with the boy i love than use my own fingers... maybe i'm the only one who feels this way but i really doubt it.

 

The guys I have had inside me seem to be masturbating anyway!

I'd much rather masturbate with others than alone, but I don't think I'd say one is better than the other. I can certainly get myself off quicker, but orgasms come as they will. My blowing alone sometimes, and earthshattering with others - who's to say? Just whatever rocks your vulva at the time I guess.

 

let your finggers do the walking

 

you bet let your fingers do the walking

 

great .some guys have all the luck

 

My lady would honestly rather have my Stick of Doom, she confirms it. Just like i'd prefer her Cave of Justice to another girl or my hand.

 

Honestly, I've never been able to get off with a guy. I have to do it myself. Not to say that I don't like sex, but it's just a pleasurable feeling sans orgasm.

 

Both are pretty enjoyable.

 

I can't (or haven't yet) cum through penetration alone. I even find it difficult to climax when someone is touching my clit and penetrating me with something - I'm not sure why. However I much prefer a lover touching me or fucking me than me touching myself. Me touching myself is predictable! But if a lover is doing something I don't like, or if there is something I'd prefer them to do then I tell them. I can't expect them to be a mind-reader.

Sometimes sex can be more enjoyable than an orgasm. It's a great feeling...and for me, the physical aspect is much less than the joy of the person I'm with. To illustrate this, when i masturbate, I fantasise about a person...not about sex. The person is the turn-on...their personality, their smell, the noises they make, the way they taste...I can't have that all on my own! People are sexy...sex is an expression of that. Not the other way around (I think).

 

I rarely find a guy that can give me the kind of orgasm I give myself. Girls, well, I've never been let down by a girl before. A few guys have given me really intense orgasms, but in all honesty, I have much better orgasms solo. I'd rather have someone else give me an orgasm though. I find it much more exciting and pleasurable.

 

It's not a matter of being unwilling to admit it... It's simply not true for many of us. My fingers can do nothing compared to what my partner can do with his fingers, tongue, then penis.

And that would be a huge difference between a casual relationship and a long term relationship...

I'm not sure I can be anonymous with myself...
But I'm no more self conscious with my partner than I am while alone. Of course, that's another difference between a long term, loving, supportive relationship and a casual fucking relationship.

 

assuming you're looking for female input in general, not just women:

whether masturbation is better than sex or not would depend on what aspect of each is being compared.

if going purely on orgasms, that's still not a black and white issue as personally i experience a difference in partnered and solo orgasms. each has it's own variety of orgasm types and which is best depends on what i desire at the time. if i'm craving a sort of orgasm that i can only get from a partner, then masturbation isn't going to be what's best for me and vice versa.