What you need to do is to achieve a deep meditative state, and then repeat these words: I will face my pain I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the pain has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. Hotwater
Being a fan of ELO is like being of fan of anal probes, or maybe like being a fan of sitting in dog crap, or stuffing angry hornets in your eyes.