You won't believe what happened to me!

Have you talked to Garrett yet ?

 

Yeah, I told him. He wasn't too happy about not being able to have sex with me anymore. He kind of sounds cute when he's pissed. But he blames himself for us getting caught. Says he should have come over at a better time. But I don't believe its anyones fault. Anyway, he wants to take me out to dinner again to make up.

 

Well it sounds like they took it fairly well. That's awesome man.

 

When he took me out to dinner my suspicions were confirmed. He was pretty pissed off at my parents that we couldn't have sex. And it really turned me on. After dinner while we were walking home I gave him a hand job in a secluded park to make him feel better. He picked me up and threw me in the bushes, climbed after me, and pounded into me. That made him calm down a bit. Then he took me home and kissed me goodnight.

 

Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Is this all true? or are we dealing with a significant new writer? Seems written like the old, "continued in tomorrow's late edition," publications. Friend (gay) told me 'bout it and said it was wonderfully written, could I check it out; did I think it was 'real life?' His last comment to me was, "I've been waiting fifteen years for my life to break that way. Seems this kid has all the luck!" Just asking.....

 

Yep, it is all true. However, one must remember that if I was really that lucky my parents wouldn't have walked in on me and Garrett having sex. My parents are still avoiding me because of that. I think that they (like me) are really embarrassed about it. What would you guys suggest I do?

 

I think you're pretty fucking lucky even with that mishap...just remember that in time it'll get much less embarassing and more "in the past". How much more have you talked about it with them?

 

You might want to go to them, like breaking the ice, and tell them you really want to talk to them.Believe me..it would have been the same reaction if they had walked in on you and a girl...its hard for parents to think of their children as sexual beings ...remember...I been there with 4 of my own !!!!

 

Good advice I'll talk to them tonight.

 

this story is really encouraging to all hip-hop. the way your parents took it and everything. they seems really understanding. i'm sure you will be able to talk to them just fine! good luck!

 

Yeah it sounds like they won't be too hard to talk to once you get talking. I've always found that the hardest part about talking with your parents about sexual things is actually starting the conversation.

 

That's what I thought at first - I've read the whole thread from the start. I suppose I can at least give him the benefit of the doubt.​

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I'm not too good at giving advice - but I DO wish you luck, HipHop, when talking to your parents and Garrett. The good thing is that your parent's are MUCHO accepting. In other cases, kids could be beaten and thrown out and stuff (maybe I've been watching too much Degrassi... it's a sad obsession).​

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It'd probably show courage and maturity if you started the conversation. I've noticed that moms are more nurturing then dads are - does your dad even know? Because he might not be as okay as your mom is.​

 

Yeah, my dad knows. He was with my mom when it happened. Here's how it went. I went up to them in the kitchen and asked if we could talk. So we all sat down at the table together. I told them how sorry I was that they had caught us like that and that it wouldn't happen again until we were adults (at least not when my parents are at home). My dad asked if Garrett was a good guy who would take care of me. I said yes. He looked relieved. Then my mom said she would like to get to know Garrett a little better and wanted me to ask him to have dinner with us more often. Then my mom told me about how we are different from other Christians because we believe it is okay to be gay as long as your Christian too. "You are still Christian right?" said my mom. I said, "Of course. I'm a liberal Christian, but still a Christian." Then my mom said, "And is Garrett a Christian?" asked my mom. "I told her the truth, "Yes." Basically my mom and dad don't care if I'm gay or in a relationship with the same-sex. They just want to make sure I'm still a Christian. (We're liberals so that works for us.) Then my mom said she just wanted to get to know the person that I am in love with. She said that she thought Garrett was a good guy from the one night he had dinner with us. My dad agreed. So it all went pretty well.

 

Wow man that's pretty awesome. It's pretty clear that religion is important to your family, and I'm so glad that your sexuality doesn't get in the way of it.

And that's totally cool that they want to have him over for dinner. Definitely a step in the right direction.

 

Yeah, my parents have always believed that dear sweet God is a little more generous than the conservatives make him out to be. Basically in our family we accept Jesus Christ and ask him to come into our hearts and then we go to church every Sunday. But that's pretty much where it ends. My parents beliefs are quite liberal. We just honesty don't belief that being gay is wrong. Which is great because I was SO nervous about what happened with my parents. But their treating my being gay as completely normal. Garrett's coming over for dinner tonight!

 

It sounds as though all is well...and i am so verry happy for you !!!!

 

Dinner went pretty good. He's coming over again tomorrow.

 

I'm looking to get in a relationship with a football player too...Hope it goes as well as yours! But seriously, Hiphop, this thread is a great inspiration!

 

wow ok then, ive been away from these forums for a while because of a bad internet thing . Ive just spent about the last 55 mins reading this in silence really carefully and........wow. Im so dam jeslous, having sex is one thing but having it with ur ideal man is.......dam.....:H . All i can say is ill enjoy reading the rest of this and ur life as it goes on. I so badlly envey you. dont waste any of these precious days make the most of all of it and never stop loving each other. lame advice coming from a 16 yr old vergen -.-