Right number one. I do NOT want your opinion on how old my boyfriend is, and he is not with me for only sex it's been more than 9 months and he clearly would of did that with me before this time if he was so no he is NOT like that. Two. It is not illegal for a almost 15 year old girl to go out with an 18 year old boy. Especially when they are not having any kind of sexual relations. So no comments on that thanks. Three. He is a lovely boy and I moved from him, so now he went to Uni. And do not say "I did not want to hear your life story blah blah" Because this is like open to everyone...so don't critisise. I shall begin. He is at Uni he is 18...just started there, my birthday is soon...15th one that is and he was meant to be coming to see me for my birthday, just over the weekend only the tickets would of cost him £68...which to be honest is a bit much for someone who is already taking out a loan...yes we do love each other...so no I wont leave him...and yes he actually does love me...you could even ask him yourself..¬_¬ Anyway. So yes...train times are crap, money is crap, should I consider asking parents if I could go and visit him later in the month OR what else should I do? Just nice and friendly advice would be appriciated please?!?! and sorry for the stroppyness of this post but I know what some people are like and the kind of things they get into their brain like if someone older is with someone younger they only want them for sex which is often true but in this case. Pure Bollocks. liek help thanks? No nasties please?
Your life man, just use your head, think before you act and if they wont let ya see him well if your really in love and he is too, then you will wait for each other to avoid issues for both of ya. Just a very short time in the grand scheme of things.
Ok, I think I might have posted advice to you once before, myself. If not, forgive my ignorance. With me personally, the situation was that the guy was pretty much using me, but I cannot speak for your situation in particular. I believe the advice that I personally posted was just that you should be careful with the guy. I know someone else posted and was kind of harsh about it. I just basically was concerned for your safety, since my own situation turned out bad. I hope everything works out for you, though.
Hmm...well thanks for the comment ^^ and thankyou for not like...being harsh...about our age gaps and stuffs. ^^ much appreciated. And yes...well we have waited like four months to see each other before it's just annoying for all this waiting around all the time.
Ummmm......if they know about him then ask them. Although as a parent my answer would be, "Are you out of your fucking mind?", I obviously can't speak for your parents.
Haha yes...they might say that although...my mother hopefully should have some trust in me. ¬_¬..he was going to stay over here anyway for when he would of seen me so maybe they might let me. *shrug*
I only wish my own situation had been different. I have met people who dated younger girls or guys and really did love them. It's rare, but it does happen. For me, the majority of my sadness came from feeling like everyone was right who had warned me about him. I didn't want them to be right, and it hurt. I wanted to believe he really cared about me. No one wants to feel like someone is just playing them. Heaven knows I've had plenty of guys since then play me and it sucks. I need a good man, you guys.
Skidrowgirl: I had a previous (sp sorry cannot spell that well) relationship which was a little like that but luckily I met the guy I'm with now and managed to see that that person was not right for me, I'm sorry you had to go through that.
you might as well accept the fact that its about sex. no dude that old wants anything from a chick as young as you for anything else. I've been there and done that. just a guys realistic point of view. like it or not, thats the way the world and life works.
If you can save up your own money to visit him, do it. Ask your parents first of course, or at least let them know where you're going, but I wouldn't ask them specifically for money to go visit your guy because, well, it's doubtful that they'll be happy bout it. Babysit if nothing else to earn up some moolah. He was going to stay with you when he came up? Uh, yeah, I doubt your parents would be ok with that. Maybe they'd be able to deal with teh age gap, but I -HIGHLY- doubt they'd want your 18 year old boyfriend sleeping over. Too many potential problems there. He would be much better off staying at a friends house in the area (assuming he has a friend who lives somewhat close)
Oh. I was just about to give you some nice wholesome advice, but since i saw that you assumed we'd all be cunts i think i'll act like one. Now, fuck off to the relationship forum, why you decided it would be a good idea to post this in Random Thoughts i have no idea. I'm beginning to think i should add my greeting to God's, although that would imply i was pleased to see you, which i most certainly am not. Good day, sir.
