It almost sounds as if the girl wishes to keep you around, interested in her, stringing you allong, but she doesnt want to have to put her part into the relationship. Its easy for me to say this...but you need to move on !
I really wish I had good, actual advice to give you...but all I feel I can really say is just to let you know that we all hope for the best for you and all support you... Then again I think, hard as it sounds, sister erzebet is right. It doesn't sound like this girl will ever come through for you and you deserve someone who you can really count on, someone who won't hide.
Thank you everyone...-sigh- It is really hard for me to come to terms with this, because she is, after all my best friend. But I think that's how it needs to stay...and nothing more. I forgot to add that when she told me that she was still in love with me, I told her that I had no feelings for her that way...it was only afterwards that I realized that I did, but I haven't told her, and I won't tell her. I am going to move on. I'm really sorry for the terribly long and somewhat confusing explanation of everything...I was REALLY out of it when I wrote it. But thank you, erzebet & treefiddy. Much love.
Thank you erzebet Danny, I feel as if you're trying to say that my posts are irrevelant and you somehow feel that you are the only one who should be able to write long posts about how you feel. Although I was pretty fucked up when I wrote this post, I was really pouring my heart out into it and I feel that my feelings and thoughts are just as important as yours. I am sorry if you feel otherwise...but I am not going to quit writing long posts just to please you. -Autumn
it sounded to me that he was trying to reasure you, he was saying something along the lines of 'I write long threads as well, so don't worry about the lengh of yours' reread what he put I don't believe theres any critism in there S
woah.........this is the hip forums babes.....i was juts saying " dont be worried about doing all that " Wrong end of the stick there.
I'm terribly sorry. I misunderstood...my parents were both abusive, so I have been criticized my whole life...all apologies.
no harm done, next time though, unless its very obvouis someone has bad intentions, try asking them before you critisize S
