what would you do?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Crystalsatreehugger, Sep 21, 2006.

  1. Crystalsatreehugger

    Crystalsatreehugger Member

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    if your boyfriend called you a feminists on the rag, would you....


    1) posion him

    2) kick him in his butt

    3) laugh along like it's the funniest thing he's ever said

    4) stare him down, why he wonders why your not laughing along at the funniest thing he's ever said


    ....I'm just curious what kind of responses I get
     
  2. HatEd

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    As a guy I think its funny.
     
  3. Crystalsatreehugger

    Crystalsatreehugger Member

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    he thinks i should think it's funny. ;)

    and i probably would if that was the only retarded thing he's said today....

    BUT the topper being when we were talking about my dad cheating on my mom he said...

    "it's not cheating if you don't get caught"

    I punched him in his ribs
     
  4. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    hrmmm well with what you were talking about i think I'd kick his butt.
     
  5. dawn_sky

    dawn_sky Senior Member

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    I can't imagine myself ever having a bf who would say something like that... And if he did, I'm not too sure he'd be my bf much longer...

    As for the original comment... If I were on the rag when he said it, why should I be offended?

    But then I also couldn't picture having a bf who randomly accused women of being on the rag just because they're not a perfect passive little doormat.
     
  6. ihmurria

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    Totally depends on the dynamic of hte relationship, the tone it was said in, all tha tkind of stuff.

    Personally, I don't think that violence is an appropriate answer to words though, but that's just me.
     
  7. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    well..i wouldnt have a boyfreind...lol being a guy..but yea i would find that bothidiotic & offensive..i'm sorry..he sounds like an idiot & i would hafta agree u can do better
     
  8. Crystalsatreehugger

    Crystalsatreehugger Member

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    haha thanks you guys but really he was just being dumb. He usually is the sweetest guy in the world and I'm totally happy and lucky to have him...

    Just every now and then he says something that absolutely gets me!!!! and no I'm not on the rag... I just wasn't rosey at the momment.

    I told him today and yes I know this is sexist. But I think his penis gets in the way of him thinking and instead of getting mad at him like I usually do I'm just gonna act like he's handicap and pet him on the head and ask him if he feels like a big boy now. So HA! eat that Mr. I know your not gonna read this...

    lol and if you do I still love you :)
     
  9. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    That's a very clever use of language! And a good way to deal with a man who's being temporarily difficult.
     
  10. DrHoffman

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    I WOULD ACTUALLY FEEL SORRY FOR HIM, AND ASK HIM TO RUN. MEN AND WOMEN CAN NEVER BE EQUAL...

     
  11. DrHoffman

    DrHoffman Member

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    ANGER MANAGEMENT
     
  12. Jenny_420

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    I would so kick him in his fucking ass!!
     
  13. ihmurria

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    Jesus. What if the gender roles were reversed here? You'd call the man a violent abusive sonofabitch. Real violence is so not the answer.
     
  14. Foxes_Den

    Foxes_Den Outta here...

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    Who was it said "God gives men a brain and a penis and only enough blood to run one at a time"? My personal view... never let the little head do the thinking for the big head.

    As far as his little "endearment"... I should send you a bumper sticker I saw. My s.o. bought one. It reads "Psycho-Amazon War-bitch from Hell with an attitude & PMS". You could show it to him and ask "You want me to prove it?" See if he laughs.
     
  15. Crystalsatreehugger

    Crystalsatreehugger Member

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    haha you guys act like I hit him hard...

    I wish I was that strong but I can picture me trying to whoop his ass and him just laughing at me.

    p.s. he's told me he'd beat my ass if he ever caught me cheating on him, so me jabbing him over saying it's only cheating if you get caught?

    sorry but no, don't feel bad on this one
     
  16. Crystalsatreehugger

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    haha but I don't think he would :)

    I'm actually 95 percent sweet all the time. So he can give me alittle le-way when I do want to get fired up!!!
     
  17. juicyxxx

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    its got 2 be 3, me and my hubby read wot u put and pissed ourselves with laughter
     
  18. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    I would stick my hands down my pants and wipe it on his face, and then I would walk away.
     
  19. sea of grass

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    yeah, i couldn't handle that shit either. i'm not bitchy on my rag, just in pain, so i hate it when a guy accuses a woman of menstruating because they feel strongly about something. that completely undermines someone.
     
  20. Crystalsatreehugger

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    exactly. well put!!
     

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