Girls, how often do you fake an orgasm?

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Yea, exactly.
Practice makes perfect, at least it ought to....

 

hahaha....all the time...I dont have them!!!!

 

I never fake an orgasm. That way your guy/girl will just keep doing everything the same way and you won't ever get the pleasure you want.

What's wrong with telling them you didn't come?

 

Same here! I've never had an orgasm with a man. I can with my battery operated boyfriend, but not with guys. Sometimes I've faked it, sometimes not. It just depended on what the expectation seemed to be. If I just wanted to be left alone, I've faked. If the guy didn't seem to care, I didn't.

 

Never. I have in the past a couple of times, but now I don't have to. I orgasm every time.

 

Never. Not even once. Why bother, just be honest and tell him it ain't gonna happen tonight. Let him get off and go to sleep.

 

I used to fake it. Figured I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Until about 6 or 7 years ago.

Now, I don't. At all. If he's not doing it for me, i'll tell him. We can try something different.

But if its not going to happen, Im not putting forth all that effort into faking it.

 

I'm always a bit... well, not exactly confused... more baffled by this. I'm a guy, and I've "missed" an orgasm before. No big. I'm not there just for me. But if my partner hasn't had a nice orgasm during, why would I want her to fake it? I'm much more into having her say, "You wanna give me a little extra help here?" If I can just concentrate on her, then she doesn't have to think about anything for the moment other than enjoying herself. Chances are she can have just as intense an orgasm after I'm done than she might have had if we were right in synch.

Oh, and on the subject of faking it... as a male, I have. Once. The reason was I was freakin' tired and was ready to quit, and I knew it wasn't gonna happen. If a woman doesn't come, that's not completely unexpected. If a guy doesn't, the gal is SURE she's done something wrong, and if she's not terribly secure to begin with... okay, so I faked one. Fortunately, when using a condom, it helps to cover the lack of mess.

 

No one should fake an orgy. If you cant get an orgasm with your partner then he blatently doesnt satisfy you enough in bed. It depends how important good sex is to you, if it is really important in a relationship then you shouldnt stay with him just so you dont hurt his feelings. It would be best not to tell him why you are dumping him, dont say, "Because you shite in bed" lol. Just say the classic, "I need some space".
If you didnt get an orgasm because you were tired or stressed then tell him that, its best not to fake though.
Just my opinion.

 

That would be hilarious indeed.

 

Dont use the double meaning.

 

i have once. now i don't really bother. its hard to get me off, i tell guys this before i sleep with them and i tell them it doesn't mean i'm not enjoying myself. so they're usually happy.

 

That's good,

 

I was wondering about this, I sometimes wonder if my girlfriend is faking it. She says there's no way she could be because im 8 inches, but it still sometimes makes me wonder.

 

The size of your cock is not necessarily relevant although it might be perfect for your g/f.

This is a complex subject and is well documented elsewhere. Women fake for a number of reasons, such as 'wanting it to be over,' as has been mentioned already, and 'not wanting to hurt his feelings.' But who can blame those that do if their partner is not sensitive and understanding?

 

IMO, faking an orgasm is a recipe for sexual frustration. Why fake it? I would imagine it would give a false sense of sexual prowess for the guy, and the girl would feel a resentment that she is never getting off - and worse yet the guy wouldn't even know it. You have to have an open path of communication specifically about sex. If he isn't getting you off, you need to teach him what works for you. The initial embarassment is worth the years of pleasure that follow.

 

And maybe you never will if you always fake... if you're not honest he will never take you there...

 

Excellent post Mrs.H., it seems counter productive to fake and not communicate. Mr. H. must a very happy camper.

 

Think there is some kind of Viagra or a like for women.

also if you ask men, how many times they got it, but was not really an orgasm, it might be 75% also. It was more or less a release not an orgasm.

Also if you ask women, what do they mean with it, amazing answers will come.